1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:33,830 foreign 2 00:00:38,510 --> 00:00:36,470 in June 1992 an extraordinary meeting 3 00:00:40,610 --> 00:00:38,520 took place at a major university in 4 00:00:43,190 --> 00:00:40,620 Cambridge Massachusetts concerning the 5 00:00:45,110 --> 00:00:43,200 UFO Abduction phenomenon the abduction 6 00:00:47,930 --> 00:00:45,120 study conference attracted mental health 7 00:00:49,549 --> 00:00:47,940 practitioners UFO investigators and 8 00:00:52,010 --> 00:00:49,559 abduction Witnesses from throughout 9 00:00:53,869 --> 00:00:52,020 North America and around the world 10 00:00:55,850 --> 00:00:53,879 following the conference a group of 11 00:00:58,010 --> 00:00:55,860 investigators and therapists gathered 12 00:01:01,250 --> 00:00:58,020 together for a provocative discussion of 13 00:01:04,070 --> 00:01:01,260 UFO abductions the participants included 14 00:01:06,890 --> 00:01:04,080 Dr Thomas E Bullard assistant professor 15 00:01:08,870 --> 00:01:06,900 of folklore at Indiana University John 16 00:01:11,149 --> 00:01:08,880 Carpenter licensed clinical social 17 00:01:12,770 --> 00:01:11,159 worker and psychiatric therapist in 18 00:01:15,109 --> 00:01:12,780 Springfield Missouri 19 00:01:17,210 --> 00:01:15,119 Dr David Gottlieb a physician and 20 00:01:19,850 --> 00:01:17,220 therapist in Toronto Canada 21 00:01:21,710 --> 00:01:19,860 Richard Hall a writer editor member of 22 00:01:23,630 --> 00:01:21,720 the national board of the fund for UFO 23 00:01:25,910 --> 00:01:23,640 research and author of a book on 24 00:01:28,429 --> 00:01:25,920 unidentified flying objects 25 00:01:31,010 --> 00:01:28,439 Bud Hopkins a New York City artist and 26 00:01:33,109 --> 00:01:31,020 UFO investigator and author of two books 27 00:01:35,569 --> 00:01:33,119 on UFO abductions 28 00:01:37,969 --> 00:01:35,579 Dr David Jacobs associate professor of 29 00:01:39,890 --> 00:01:37,979 history at Temple University and author 30 00:01:43,069 --> 00:01:39,900 of a recently published book on UFO 31 00:01:44,690 --> 00:01:43,079 abductions and Dr David Pritchard a 32 00:01:46,969 --> 00:01:44,700 professor at the Massachusetts Institute 33 00:01:49,010 --> 00:01:46,979 of Technology and coordinator of the 34 00:01:51,289 --> 00:01:49,020 abduction study conference 35 00:01:52,670 --> 00:01:51,299 the discussion was moderated by Richard 36 00:01:55,550 --> 00:01:52,680 Hall 37 00:01:57,830 --> 00:01:55,560 what exactly is an abduction report what 38 00:01:59,630 --> 00:01:57,840 is it that people typically report in an 39 00:02:03,350 --> 00:01:59,640 abduction case Eddie could you tell us 40 00:02:05,990 --> 00:02:03,360 the basic abduction report is is 41 00:02:09,130 --> 00:02:06,000 account of someone taken from the 42 00:02:12,949 --> 00:02:09,140 highway from a bedroom from the open air 43 00:02:16,809 --> 00:02:12,959 taken into an unusual environment by 44 00:02:20,570 --> 00:02:16,819 usually very short gray beings of 45 00:02:23,150 --> 00:02:20,580 humanoid but non-human description given 46 00:02:25,850 --> 00:02:23,160 a physical examination of some sort and 47 00:02:29,030 --> 00:02:25,860 then returned home sometimes the cases 48 00:02:31,610 --> 00:02:29,040 get more elaborate as the person has a 49 00:02:33,290 --> 00:02:31,620 conversation with the beings and in a 50 00:02:35,990 --> 00:02:33,300 few cases you also get even more 51 00:02:38,869 --> 00:02:36,000 elaborate descriptions of 52 00:02:40,670 --> 00:02:38,879 transport to some very strange seemingly 53 00:02:44,809 --> 00:02:40,680 otherworldly environment 54 00:02:46,850 --> 00:02:44,819 basic classic abduction report like in 55 00:02:49,369 --> 00:02:46,860 in those reports the key elements are 56 00:02:50,690 --> 00:02:49,379 the capture the examination of the 57 00:02:51,650 --> 00:02:50,700 return 58 00:02:53,869 --> 00:02:51,660 okay 59 00:02:55,610 --> 00:02:53,879 um maybe uh bud and Dave Jacobs could 60 00:02:58,670 --> 00:02:55,620 give us an example or two of a case 61 00:03:03,170 --> 00:03:01,790 well uh one of the things that uh should 62 00:03:05,509 --> 00:03:03,180 we mentioned is that this doesn't just 63 00:03:07,729 --> 00:03:05,519 happen necessarily one person at a time 64 00:03:09,589 --> 00:03:07,739 so if two or three people may be 65 00:03:12,589 --> 00:03:09,599 abducted say from an automobile or 66 00:03:14,390 --> 00:03:12,599 whatever when they're taken into the 67 00:03:15,350 --> 00:03:14,400 ship I should add there sometimes 68 00:03:18,410 --> 00:03:15,360 floated 69 00:03:20,330 --> 00:03:18,420 as if they're weightless and very rarely 70 00:03:21,890 --> 00:03:20,340 do they simply walk 71 00:03:23,690 --> 00:03:21,900 when they're taken into the ship they're 72 00:03:26,750 --> 00:03:23,700 generally that separate one from another 73 00:03:28,970 --> 00:03:26,760 so they'll have uh very consonant 74 00:03:30,850 --> 00:03:28,980 memories up until the time they finally 75 00:03:33,710 --> 00:03:30,860 go into the ship 76 00:03:35,330 --> 00:03:33,720 to have cases involving as many as seven 77 00:03:37,550 --> 00:03:35,340 people that were taken at once but 78 00:03:40,670 --> 00:03:37,560 inscriptions exactly as you described it 79 00:03:42,110 --> 00:03:40,680 okay I might add also that uh that the 80 00:03:44,089 --> 00:03:42,120 people who say these things are 81 00:03:46,309 --> 00:03:44,099 apparently around them cross-section of 82 00:03:47,630 --> 00:03:46,319 the population uh and there doesn't seem 83 00:03:49,190 --> 00:03:47,640 to be any patterns that we can find in 84 00:03:50,990 --> 00:03:49,200 terms of age or ethnic group or 85 00:03:52,910 --> 00:03:51,000 educational level or anything of that 86 00:03:55,130 --> 00:03:52,920 sort and they all describe basically the 87 00:03:58,670 --> 00:03:55,140 same experiences and many of the reports 88 00:04:00,530 --> 00:03:58,680 are are are fairly complex and uh and 89 00:04:02,449 --> 00:04:00,540 yet and there's of course A variation in 90 00:04:04,789 --> 00:04:02,459 detail in them in them but of course 91 00:04:06,770 --> 00:04:04,799 there's also a a certain Precision in 92 00:04:09,949 --> 00:04:06,780 their detail that is a very very 93 00:04:11,390 --> 00:04:09,959 extraordinary and uh and constitutes uh 94 00:04:14,630 --> 00:04:11,400 one of the core features of the 95 00:04:17,689 --> 00:04:14,640 abduction development okay let me ask uh 96 00:04:20,270 --> 00:04:17,699 I just sure 97 00:04:21,949 --> 00:04:20,280 what about the issue of what age are the 98 00:04:24,590 --> 00:04:21,959 people when these things happen and 99 00:04:27,650 --> 00:04:24,600 whether they happen more than once 100 00:04:31,490 --> 00:04:27,660 the uh cut off age for the first 101 00:04:34,790 --> 00:04:31,500 abduction is almost always about 30 or 102 00:04:37,310 --> 00:04:34,800 35. it's abductions seem to be an 103 00:04:40,670 --> 00:04:37,320 Affliction of the young 104 00:04:43,670 --> 00:04:40,680 sometimes starting at a very early age 105 00:04:46,129 --> 00:04:43,680 almost at the Cradle certainly by age 106 00:04:48,770 --> 00:04:46,139 say five or six 107 00:04:51,950 --> 00:04:48,780 and it usually goes on the rest may go 108 00:04:54,890 --> 00:04:51,960 on the rest of your life or 109 00:04:57,110 --> 00:04:54,900 good part I think it's also important to 110 00:04:58,790 --> 00:04:57,120 realize that the these cases in which a 111 00:05:03,050 --> 00:04:58,800 small child reports an abduction 112 00:05:04,370 --> 00:05:03,060 sometimes a great detail a child that I 113 00:05:06,170 --> 00:05:04,380 work with 114 00:05:07,490 --> 00:05:06,180 told his mother with great Terror the 115 00:05:10,490 --> 00:05:07,500 next morning that he had been floated 116 00:05:12,350 --> 00:05:10,500 out a window by three little beings they 117 00:05:13,969 --> 00:05:12,360 went up a blue beam of light into a ship 118 00:05:15,070 --> 00:05:13,979 he was put on a table things were done 119 00:05:18,050 --> 00:05:15,080 to his body 120 00:05:20,990 --> 00:05:18,060 some children then demonstrated to their 121 00:05:22,010 --> 00:05:21,000 parents the Mark was cut was put on the 122 00:05:25,249 --> 00:05:22,020 body and so on and these are children 123 00:05:27,170 --> 00:05:25,259 two three four five years old leaving so 124 00:05:29,650 --> 00:05:27,180 we're not getting something that's 125 00:05:32,450 --> 00:05:29,660 feeding back through films or whatever 126 00:05:35,029 --> 00:05:32,460 there is a remarkable thought of detail 127 00:05:36,770 --> 00:05:35,039 that keeps recurring from people who 128 00:05:39,050 --> 00:05:36,780 know nothing about the phenomenon who 129 00:05:41,210 --> 00:05:39,060 know nothing about other people's cases 130 00:05:42,350 --> 00:05:41,220 and as you said even little children who 131 00:05:45,529 --> 00:05:42,360 have no 132 00:05:47,930 --> 00:05:45,539 possibility of remembering well 133 00:05:50,689 --> 00:05:47,940 still say the same thing let me also say 134 00:05:52,909 --> 00:05:50,699 this that at the same time we do get 135 00:05:55,249 --> 00:05:52,919 quite a large number of reports from 136 00:05:57,050 --> 00:05:55,259 people who have had these experiences 137 00:05:58,730 --> 00:05:57,060 from the time that they were small 138 00:06:01,070 --> 00:05:58,740 children and who now might be in their 139 00:06:03,230 --> 00:06:01,080 60s or 70s and are still having the the 140 00:06:05,090 --> 00:06:03,240 experience as well and the experiences 141 00:06:06,950 --> 00:06:05,100 have a similarity basically with other 142 00:06:09,770 --> 00:06:06,960 people's experiences in other words 143 00:06:11,450 --> 00:06:09,780 there's a change in the way in which 144 00:06:12,529 --> 00:06:11,460 they might be handled 145 00:06:16,969 --> 00:06:12,539 thank you 146 00:06:18,590 --> 00:06:16,979 from being a child to an adult but the 147 00:06:20,570 --> 00:06:18,600 all the cases seem to correlate 148 00:06:21,650 --> 00:06:20,580 according to age as well all the adults 149 00:06:23,029 --> 00:06:21,660 basically see if they're treated more 150 00:06:24,290 --> 00:06:23,039 and children are treated in other way to 151 00:06:26,210 --> 00:06:24,300 a certain extent 152 00:06:27,890 --> 00:06:26,220 okay now we've just come from an 153 00:06:30,529 --> 00:06:27,900 important conference in which we've been 154 00:06:32,749 --> 00:06:30,539 addressing this subject I'd like to ask 155 00:06:35,390 --> 00:06:32,759 Dave Pritchard to tell us what exactly 156 00:06:36,710 --> 00:06:35,400 was the purpose of this conference uh 157 00:06:38,870 --> 00:06:36,720 you know what did we hope to accomplish 158 00:06:40,610 --> 00:06:38,880 with it well you know of course like any 159 00:06:42,830 --> 00:06:40,620 conference you have a number of purposes 160 00:06:44,990 --> 00:06:42,840 and you try to balance them up but I I 161 00:06:48,290 --> 00:06:45,000 think first and foremost in the field 162 00:06:51,409 --> 00:06:48,300 like this it's very important to bring 163 00:06:52,969 --> 00:06:51,419 the researchers and the abductees or 164 00:06:55,129 --> 00:06:52,979 experiences or whatever you want to call 165 00:06:56,529 --> 00:06:55,139 them and together and in this case we 166 00:06:59,450 --> 00:06:56,539 also brought in a lot of related 167 00:07:00,770 --> 00:06:59,460 professionals as well 168 00:07:03,590 --> 00:07:00,780 um it's important to bring them together 169 00:07:05,809 --> 00:07:03,600 just to talk and to share the ideas and 170 00:07:10,010 --> 00:07:05,819 and uh in the presentations to present 171 00:07:12,950 --> 00:07:10,020 the latest results uh in the field a 172 00:07:16,870 --> 00:07:12,960 specific objective that differentiates 173 00:07:19,850 --> 00:07:16,880 this conflicts from many of the earlier 174 00:07:23,510 --> 00:07:19,860 meetings held at which inductees were a 175 00:07:25,909 --> 00:07:23,520 small or medium part of the proceedings 176 00:07:29,029 --> 00:07:25,919 were here they were the entire 177 00:07:32,510 --> 00:07:29,039 Conference of almost five days focused 178 00:07:36,469 --> 00:07:32,520 just on abductions no UFOs no crop 179 00:07:39,230 --> 00:07:36,479 circles and uh secondarily that we tried 180 00:07:41,570 --> 00:07:39,240 to bring in a wider group of 181 00:07:43,309 --> 00:07:41,580 professionals than is normally the case 182 00:07:46,189 --> 00:07:43,319 we tried to bring in people the 183 00:07:51,249 --> 00:07:46,199 psychologists you know for instance who 184 00:07:54,770 --> 00:07:51,259 are experts in ritual abuse or uh 185 00:07:57,409 --> 00:07:54,780 some sort of related Collective mental 186 00:07:59,469 --> 00:07:57,419 or aberrative phenomena dissociative 187 00:08:02,150 --> 00:07:59,479 phenomena we tried to bring in 188 00:08:03,170 --> 00:08:02,160 scientists and even theologians I mean 189 00:08:05,210 --> 00:08:03,180 this is a 190 00:08:07,249 --> 00:08:05,220 this problem I think when you really get 191 00:08:08,990 --> 00:08:07,259 into it is extremely broad it's not just 192 00:08:11,629 --> 00:08:09,000 a simple matter of being 193 00:08:13,730 --> 00:08:11,639 table examined and put back and 194 00:08:16,210 --> 00:08:13,740 certainly it has a tremendous effect on 195 00:08:18,589 --> 00:08:16,220 the experiences 196 00:08:20,570 --> 00:08:18,599 of course the third objective of the 197 00:08:23,629 --> 00:08:20,580 conference was to have a really good 198 00:08:25,249 --> 00:08:23,639 discussion and uh you know at least the 199 00:08:26,809 --> 00:08:25,259 total amount of time allocated 200 00:08:28,610 --> 00:08:26,819 discussion was about half of the 201 00:08:30,230 --> 00:08:28,620 presentation time it wasn't just you 202 00:08:32,029 --> 00:08:30,240 make your presentation and then you 203 00:08:34,250 --> 00:08:32,039 dodge a couple questions and sit down I 204 00:08:36,769 --> 00:08:34,260 mean we really had a good discussion by 205 00:08:39,170 --> 00:08:36,779 which I mean it was extensive uh and it 206 00:08:42,230 --> 00:08:39,180 was critical and we had a number of 207 00:08:44,930 --> 00:08:42,240 critics uh well mostly of the 208 00:08:46,970 --> 00:08:44,940 methodology or the interpretation in 209 00:08:48,769 --> 00:08:46,980 fact we even had a couple of people who 210 00:08:51,829 --> 00:08:48,779 were quite skeptical there and in the 211 00:08:54,410 --> 00:08:51,839 final purpose of the conference is to 212 00:08:56,750 --> 00:08:54,420 put out a proceedings that reflect what 213 00:08:58,670 --> 00:08:56,760 went on and reflect this feel pretty 214 00:09:00,230 --> 00:08:58,680 much from top to bottom left to right or 215 00:09:03,230 --> 00:09:00,240 however many dimensions you think it has 216 00:09:05,269 --> 00:09:03,240 okay we'll get a little a little later 217 00:09:06,769 --> 00:09:05,279 we'll get into uh what we think we've 218 00:09:09,350 --> 00:09:06,779 accomplished here but let me just ask 219 00:09:11,930 --> 00:09:09,360 the therapists what were your 220 00:09:14,030 --> 00:09:11,940 expectations coming into the conference 221 00:09:15,170 --> 00:09:14,040 what did you think we or hope we would 222 00:09:17,750 --> 00:09:15,180 accomplish 223 00:09:20,030 --> 00:09:17,760 I had well there were two things that I 224 00:09:22,970 --> 00:09:20,040 was hoping to take away from one was to 225 00:09:25,670 --> 00:09:22,980 collect more more clinical data and 226 00:09:26,930 --> 00:09:25,680 learn the results of clinical surveys 227 00:09:29,690 --> 00:09:26,940 that other people have done which will 228 00:09:32,269 --> 00:09:29,700 help me in my diagnosis and my treatment 229 00:09:33,949 --> 00:09:32,279 the other was to have a bunch of 230 00:09:36,170 --> 00:09:33,959 clinicians together and investigators 231 00:09:37,790 --> 00:09:36,180 and abductees representing a wide 232 00:09:39,650 --> 00:09:37,800 variety of experience so we can begin to 233 00:09:41,930 --> 00:09:39,660 put together some basic guidelines on 234 00:09:43,850 --> 00:09:41,940 how to proceed from from a therapeutic 235 00:09:45,470 --> 00:09:43,860 point of view 236 00:09:48,290 --> 00:09:45,480 John 237 00:09:50,389 --> 00:09:48,300 as therapists we all work in such 238 00:09:52,009 --> 00:09:50,399 isolated fashion far away from each 239 00:09:54,410 --> 00:09:52,019 other so each time we have an 240 00:09:57,170 --> 00:09:54,420 opportunity to come together like this 241 00:09:59,210 --> 00:09:57,180 it's it's like a family reunion of sorts 242 00:10:01,190 --> 00:09:59,220 although there's always new members that 243 00:10:03,710 --> 00:10:01,200 we haven't seen you forward 244 00:10:05,990 --> 00:10:03,720 and learn to pull them in and learn what 245 00:10:08,090 --> 00:10:06,000 their interests and expertise are 246 00:10:10,210 --> 00:10:08,100 I personally learned a great deal from 247 00:10:14,090 --> 00:10:10,220 the specialists in other 248 00:10:15,790 --> 00:10:14,100 parts of the field uh different aspects 249 00:10:19,150 --> 00:10:15,800 I had never 250 00:10:22,070 --> 00:10:19,160 encountered such expertise and knowledge 251 00:10:24,230 --> 00:10:22,080 regarding and that was quite helpful to 252 00:10:26,930 --> 00:10:24,240 me and will continue to be an ongoing 253 00:10:28,550 --> 00:10:26,940 process it's also quite helpful to hear 254 00:10:31,430 --> 00:10:28,560 from those who have experienced the 255 00:10:34,009 --> 00:10:31,440 phenomenon and again representation from 256 00:10:36,769 --> 00:10:34,019 all across the country and to see what 257 00:10:38,630 --> 00:10:36,779 was similar among their experiences and 258 00:10:40,430 --> 00:10:38,640 especially needs 259 00:10:41,990 --> 00:10:40,440 I think if I can just add one of them 260 00:10:45,110 --> 00:10:42,000 one of the things that made this meeting 261 00:10:47,569 --> 00:10:45,120 really special for me was the wide 262 00:10:49,130 --> 00:10:47,579 diversity of the Specialists that were 263 00:10:50,569 --> 00:10:49,140 invited to speak and invited to 264 00:10:52,490 --> 00:10:50,579 participate because one of my major 265 00:10:54,590 --> 00:10:52,500 concerns as a therapist is differential 266 00:10:56,329 --> 00:10:54,600 diagnosis someone may present 267 00:10:58,550 --> 00:10:56,339 believingly have an abduction experience 268 00:11:00,290 --> 00:10:58,560 but I have to separate out the true 269 00:11:02,030 --> 00:11:00,300 abduction experiences some other things 270 00:11:04,130 --> 00:11:02,040 which may resemble it closely or may 271 00:11:05,750 --> 00:11:04,140 resemble it not at all and we had people 272 00:11:11,090 --> 00:11:05,760 here who were expert in dissociative 273 00:11:13,190 --> 00:11:11,100 phenomena somebody with ritual abuse and 274 00:11:15,230 --> 00:11:13,200 psychologists psychometricians and so on 275 00:11:17,389 --> 00:11:15,240 it was very helpful for me to try to 276 00:11:20,210 --> 00:11:17,399 hone in on the people that I should 277 00:11:23,030 --> 00:11:20,220 really be identifying as abductees okay 278 00:11:24,470 --> 00:11:23,040 good let me ask the investigators from 279 00:11:26,569 --> 00:11:24,480 their perspective 280 00:11:28,430 --> 00:11:26,579 what their expectations were coming into 281 00:11:29,630 --> 00:11:28,440 the conference and and you can go right 282 00:11:31,670 --> 00:11:29,640 ahead into what you think we've 283 00:11:33,710 --> 00:11:31,680 accomplished we'll talk later about 284 00:11:36,889 --> 00:11:33,720 where we go from here but so far what 285 00:11:38,930 --> 00:11:36,899 you think we may have accomplished 286 00:11:41,569 --> 00:11:38,940 all right from my point of view I would 287 00:11:43,790 --> 00:11:41,579 think the uh the most significant thing 288 00:11:46,190 --> 00:11:43,800 is is pretty much what Dave's Gottlieb 289 00:11:48,710 --> 00:11:46,200 said that we got so many people and so 290 00:11:50,569 --> 00:11:48,720 many diverse points of view together we 291 00:11:52,670 --> 00:11:50,579 got to see what people were doing in the 292 00:11:55,730 --> 00:11:52,680 field how they're in different 293 00:11:57,170 --> 00:11:55,740 perspectives can make a contribution to 294 00:11:59,150 --> 00:11:57,180 our understanding 295 00:12:01,910 --> 00:11:59,160 what's going on 296 00:12:03,590 --> 00:12:01,920 and I think it was a very enlightening 297 00:12:06,290 --> 00:12:03,600 sort of thing to see 298 00:12:09,350 --> 00:12:06,300 not only the the clinical side but the 299 00:12:11,750 --> 00:12:09,360 investigative side and all the variety 300 00:12:14,269 --> 00:12:11,760 of opinion and there was a lot of 301 00:12:16,730 --> 00:12:14,279 discussion about the interactions 302 00:12:18,889 --> 00:12:16,740 between an among investigators and 303 00:12:21,110 --> 00:12:18,899 therapists and the perceivers that was a 304 00:12:24,829 --> 00:12:21,120 good part of the conference if I like to 305 00:12:30,949 --> 00:12:27,829 okay actually it's not exactly to that 306 00:12:33,590 --> 00:12:30,959 point all right go ahead but um the 307 00:12:36,410 --> 00:12:33,600 thing that was most valuable to me I 308 00:12:40,130 --> 00:12:36,420 think is lies in the area of just very 309 00:12:42,410 --> 00:12:40,140 things that uh they badly uh mentioned 310 00:12:43,790 --> 00:12:42,420 I think uh for instance a woman spoke 311 00:12:45,550 --> 00:12:43,800 about uh 312 00:12:48,129 --> 00:12:45,560 her specialty which is treating 313 00:12:50,990 --> 00:12:48,139 post-traumatic stress disorder thickness 314 00:12:54,590 --> 00:12:51,000 what seemed to work better uh what their 315 00:12:56,329 --> 00:12:54,600 strategies of denial their the various 316 00:12:59,210 --> 00:12:56,339 systems they use to handle experiences 317 00:13:01,610 --> 00:12:59,220 and so forth uh even though she is 318 00:13:04,009 --> 00:13:01,620 working with the Vietnam war vets and 319 00:13:06,530 --> 00:13:04,019 other people right clicked into so forth 320 00:13:08,410 --> 00:13:06,540 uh the parallels are so extraordinary 321 00:13:12,170 --> 00:13:08,420 with what I run into 322 00:13:14,389 --> 00:13:12,180 practically daily with abductees was 323 00:13:18,410 --> 00:13:14,399 extremely helpful to get her perspective 324 00:13:21,530 --> 00:13:18,420 on treatment and behavior symptoms and 325 00:13:23,269 --> 00:13:21,540 so forth because not being a training 326 00:13:24,530 --> 00:13:23,279 therapist of course it's extremely 327 00:13:25,970 --> 00:13:24,540 important for me to get as much raw 328 00:13:27,530 --> 00:13:25,980 material off because like Anthony 329 00:13:29,090 --> 00:13:27,540 sources and I think so the investigators 330 00:13:31,190 --> 00:13:29,100 at least speed for myself 331 00:13:34,129 --> 00:13:31,200 all of that side of the program was 332 00:13:36,530 --> 00:13:34,139 extraordinarily important yes I I agree 333 00:13:39,230 --> 00:13:36,540 with that it was it gave me an insight 334 00:13:41,030 --> 00:13:39,240 into into various uh treatments and ways 335 00:13:43,129 --> 00:13:41,040 to approach the subject I think the 336 00:13:45,530 --> 00:13:43,139 conference also showed me uh basically 337 00:13:47,629 --> 00:13:45,540 uh where people are at on a personal 338 00:13:49,550 --> 00:13:47,639 level how they confront this phenomenon 339 00:13:51,769 --> 00:13:49,560 all the variations that one sees across 340 00:13:53,509 --> 00:13:51,779 the society on a professional level how 341 00:13:56,030 --> 00:13:53,519 people are investigating and how they're 342 00:13:58,790 --> 00:13:56,040 doing research it points directions as 343 00:14:00,829 --> 00:13:58,800 to uh to How Far We've gone and and what 344 00:14:02,329 --> 00:14:00,839 we need to do in the future as well and 345 00:14:04,790 --> 00:14:02,339 it kind of brings it all together in 346 00:14:07,310 --> 00:14:04,800 sharp relief and it's a it's an enormous 347 00:14:08,269 --> 00:14:07,320 benefit in that regard just one added 348 00:14:11,210 --> 00:14:08,279 thought here 349 00:14:13,090 --> 00:14:11,220 what was so fascinating to me about the 350 00:14:16,790 --> 00:14:13,100 role of the abductees at the conference 351 00:14:19,730 --> 00:14:16,800 the scientists and clinicians 352 00:14:22,009 --> 00:14:19,740 therapists and the investigators is that 353 00:14:23,569 --> 00:14:22,019 in a strange way each one of us is 354 00:14:25,190 --> 00:14:23,579 participating in the world of the other 355 00:14:27,889 --> 00:14:25,200 two to a much greater extent that we 356 00:14:30,650 --> 00:14:27,899 thought maybe one of the therapists 357 00:14:33,050 --> 00:14:30,660 suggested that those of us who were 358 00:14:34,970 --> 00:14:33,060 doing this work with people uh have 359 00:14:37,970 --> 00:14:34,980 these experiences are somehow picking up 360 00:14:39,829 --> 00:14:37,980 through just Association and osmosis I 361 00:14:41,269 --> 00:14:39,839 guess some of the same symptoms and 362 00:14:43,970 --> 00:14:41,279 anxieties of the people we're actually 363 00:14:46,850 --> 00:14:43,980 working with and I think that nobody can 364 00:14:49,370 --> 00:14:46,860 do an investigation without doing de 365 00:14:51,530 --> 00:14:49,380 facto therapy yes and nobody can do 366 00:14:53,689 --> 00:14:51,540 therapy without in a strange way what's 367 00:14:55,670 --> 00:14:53,699 that's an unusual subject being a kind 368 00:14:58,069 --> 00:14:55,680 of pioneer investigator so we're all 369 00:14:59,689 --> 00:14:58,079 three in a strange way infinitely more 370 00:15:01,490 --> 00:14:59,699 interlocked with one another's worlds 371 00:15:04,730 --> 00:15:01,500 than we had thought how do the 372 00:15:07,790 --> 00:15:04,740 therapists feel about this relationship 373 00:15:09,769 --> 00:15:07,800 I think we're still trying to work on 374 00:15:13,129 --> 00:15:09,779 exactly how to define it I think 375 00:15:15,110 --> 00:15:13,139 basically one's point is exactly right 376 00:15:19,370 --> 00:15:15,120 whether I'm working with an abductee or 377 00:15:20,990 --> 00:15:19,380 any other kind of problem or syndrome as 378 00:15:23,810 --> 00:15:21,000 a therapist I am de facto an 379 00:15:25,550 --> 00:15:23,820 investigator because it's a dynamic 380 00:15:27,650 --> 00:15:25,560 organic process I'm learning more about 381 00:15:29,870 --> 00:15:27,660 the person more about his biographies or 382 00:15:31,670 --> 00:15:29,880 her biography and so on and I think it's 383 00:15:33,050 --> 00:15:31,680 true uh from the other the other 384 00:15:35,030 --> 00:15:33,060 direction one of the things that we were 385 00:15:36,730 --> 00:15:35,040 talking about today and it was it was an 386 00:15:40,670 --> 00:15:36,740 interesting discussion back and forth is 387 00:15:42,590 --> 00:15:40,680 how does one balance the therapist and 388 00:15:44,389 --> 00:15:42,600 the investigators roles one person said 389 00:15:46,310 --> 00:15:44,399 that there should be a tria there should 390 00:15:48,410 --> 00:15:46,320 be an investigator a therapist and an 391 00:15:51,470 --> 00:15:48,420 experiencer Who as a team should move in 392 00:15:54,110 --> 00:15:51,480 and deal with each experience or one 393 00:15:55,970 --> 00:15:54,120 suggestion and I think out of out of 394 00:15:57,410 --> 00:15:55,980 this conference is probably going to 395 00:16:00,470 --> 00:15:57,420 come 396 00:16:03,050 --> 00:16:00,480 a working group which will work towards 397 00:16:04,790 --> 00:16:03,060 a proposal for how to answer these 398 00:16:06,590 --> 00:16:04,800 questions in a way that the entire 399 00:16:08,689 --> 00:16:06,600 Community can accept and debate so which 400 00:16:10,610 --> 00:16:08,699 we can introduce it into the into the 401 00:16:14,210 --> 00:16:10,620 public forum it can be our community 402 00:16:15,710 --> 00:16:14,220 policy I I would just like to interject 403 00:16:19,009 --> 00:16:15,720 that um 404 00:16:23,569 --> 00:16:19,019 it seemed you know the key in this whole 405 00:16:25,910 --> 00:16:23,579 field is the tremendous uh impact in 406 00:16:28,129 --> 00:16:25,920 just feeling that something important 407 00:16:29,750 --> 00:16:28,139 has happened that you get when you speak 408 00:16:32,990 --> 00:16:29,760 to the abductees that's where it all 409 00:16:34,790 --> 00:16:33,000 starts uh but I've and at the previous 410 00:16:37,069 --> 00:16:34,800 meetings where there have been uh 411 00:16:38,389 --> 00:16:37,079 abductee panels or presentations you 412 00:16:40,790 --> 00:16:38,399 know that's what's come across most 413 00:16:41,990 --> 00:16:40,800 strongly but at this point I had much 414 00:16:44,629 --> 00:16:42,000 more of the feeling that they were 415 00:16:46,009 --> 00:16:44,639 beginning to talk to us and say you know 416 00:16:47,569 --> 00:16:46,019 some of you people have been too narrow 417 00:16:51,530 --> 00:16:47,579 you haven't opened yourself to this full 418 00:16:53,629 --> 00:16:51,540 experience and uh and as as Bud said I 419 00:16:56,150 --> 00:16:53,639 think you're you're partly a participant 420 00:16:59,090 --> 00:16:56,160 in this not just an observer 421 00:17:01,490 --> 00:16:59,100 yes and they they spoke rather strongly 422 00:17:03,710 --> 00:17:01,500 about the problem they have and uh 423 00:17:05,809 --> 00:17:03,720 establishing their relationships with 424 00:17:08,630 --> 00:17:05,819 both therapists and investigators would 425 00:17:10,490 --> 00:17:08,640 you like to address that a little bit 426 00:17:12,350 --> 00:17:10,500 well I looked at actually start off I 427 00:17:15,590 --> 00:17:12,360 mean that's clearly one of the 428 00:17:17,809 --> 00:17:15,600 really underlying dichotomies in the 429 00:17:19,429 --> 00:17:17,819 people who are looking at the abductees 430 00:17:21,650 --> 00:17:19,439 you know you have the investigators who 431 00:17:24,530 --> 00:17:21,660 are assuming that there is some 432 00:17:26,449 --> 00:17:24,540 underlying reality in many cases not all 433 00:17:27,650 --> 00:17:26,459 of them uh and then they're trying to 434 00:17:30,770 --> 00:17:27,660 find this out you know without 435 00:17:33,770 --> 00:17:30,780 Distortion uh you know by the the 436 00:17:35,029 --> 00:17:33,780 emotions of the parsippium which is 437 00:17:36,650 --> 00:17:35,039 extremely difficult to do but they're 438 00:17:38,630 --> 00:17:36,660 trying to get through that somehow to 439 00:17:41,630 --> 00:17:38,640 get get out get around the confabulation 440 00:17:43,070 --> 00:17:41,640 or the misapprehension and so on then on 441 00:17:45,350 --> 00:17:43,080 the other hand they're the therapy 442 00:17:47,330 --> 00:17:45,360 people who are really trying to change 443 00:17:49,490 --> 00:17:47,340 the way that these people look at their 444 00:17:51,529 --> 00:17:49,500 experience without particular regard for 445 00:17:53,810 --> 00:17:51,539 its origin and help them come to grips 446 00:17:55,669 --> 00:17:53,820 with it view themselves as survivors 447 00:17:57,289 --> 00:17:55,679 rather than victims or even there were 448 00:17:59,810 --> 00:17:57,299 some reports here of going beyond that 449 00:18:01,490 --> 00:17:59,820 uh and changing in a quite Global Way 450 00:18:04,850 --> 00:18:01,500 their perspectives on the whole thing 451 00:18:07,010 --> 00:18:04,860 the problem for for John and myself and 452 00:18:09,529 --> 00:18:07,020 the therapist who were here is that 453 00:18:10,730 --> 00:18:09,539 uh most of us are working in as a 454 00:18:14,150 --> 00:18:10,740 practical problem most of us are working 455 00:18:16,370 --> 00:18:14,160 in regulated professions and at any time 456 00:18:19,070 --> 00:18:16,380 we can be called up to justify our 457 00:18:20,630 --> 00:18:19,080 actions as being rep as being as being 458 00:18:22,310 --> 00:18:20,640 following the accepted standards and 459 00:18:23,810 --> 00:18:22,320 practices of the community so we're 460 00:18:25,789 --> 00:18:23,820 caught in a really difficult situation 461 00:18:27,470 --> 00:18:25,799 on the one hand we recognize what's 462 00:18:28,970 --> 00:18:27,480 going on here we don't may not know 463 00:18:30,830 --> 00:18:28,980 exactly what it is but there are people 464 00:18:32,090 --> 00:18:30,840 who are isolated and Confused they're in 465 00:18:33,770 --> 00:18:32,100 pain and they need help they're 466 00:18:35,630 --> 00:18:33,780 interested we want to do as a public 467 00:18:38,450 --> 00:18:35,640 service to step in and try to use what 468 00:18:41,150 --> 00:18:38,460 skills we have on the other hand all of 469 00:18:43,310 --> 00:18:41,160 our training and experience is to 470 00:18:44,630 --> 00:18:43,320 recognize a particular Syndrome look at 471 00:18:46,130 --> 00:18:44,640 the research that's been done in the 472 00:18:47,690 --> 00:18:46,140 medical literature and apply it so that 473 00:18:49,250 --> 00:18:47,700 we can go back to our our colleagues and 474 00:18:50,930 --> 00:18:49,260 our peers and say this is what we're 475 00:18:52,610 --> 00:18:50,940 doing maybe the case didn't turn out 476 00:18:54,950 --> 00:18:52,620 right but not all cases will turn out 477 00:18:56,570 --> 00:18:54,960 right at least we did what you believe 478 00:18:58,669 --> 00:18:56,580 to be accepted practiced and there are 479 00:19:00,770 --> 00:18:58,679 no such standards here certainly not if 480 00:19:03,409 --> 00:19:00,780 I go back to my licensing board so we 481 00:19:05,090 --> 00:19:03,419 have to be we walk a very fine line we 482 00:19:06,409 --> 00:19:05,100 want to treat the experience or with 483 00:19:08,390 --> 00:19:06,419 respect we want to collect information 484 00:19:10,010 --> 00:19:08,400 so we can understand what we're dealing 485 00:19:12,289 --> 00:19:10,020 with so we can do a better service to 486 00:19:14,150 --> 00:19:12,299 the experiencer without going too far 487 00:19:15,710 --> 00:19:14,160 off and the data election to end it 488 00:19:17,990 --> 00:19:15,720 without going too far off in our own 489 00:19:19,730 --> 00:19:18,000 conceptualization of the phenomena and 490 00:19:21,950 --> 00:19:19,740 that's uh that takes a tremendous amount 491 00:19:23,210 --> 00:19:21,960 of thinking and discipline and dialogue 492 00:19:25,850 --> 00:19:23,220 and that's what this week was all about 493 00:19:28,190 --> 00:19:25,860 I think those are extremely important 494 00:19:29,930 --> 00:19:28,200 points uh those who've experienced the 495 00:19:34,490 --> 00:19:29,940 phenomenon certainly gave us a very 496 00:19:37,610 --> 00:19:34,500 clear message about trust responsibility 497 00:19:41,150 --> 00:19:37,620 not just any psychologist can pick this 498 00:19:43,130 --> 00:19:41,160 up and try to start seeing people and 499 00:19:45,470 --> 00:19:43,140 those who've experience this phenomenon 500 00:19:48,950 --> 00:19:45,480 immediately will recognize that they 501 00:19:50,870 --> 00:19:48,960 have a narrow focus and it immediately 502 00:19:52,250 --> 00:19:50,880 can discount very important parts of 503 00:19:54,470 --> 00:19:52,260 their experience so there's a great 504 00:19:57,890 --> 00:19:54,480 knowledge that those who are wanting to 505 00:20:01,610 --> 00:19:57,900 help need to obtain and we are 506 00:20:04,070 --> 00:20:01,620 constantly as nervous gaining in our 507 00:20:06,350 --> 00:20:04,080 understanding it's really a teaching 508 00:20:07,909 --> 00:20:06,360 that goes both ways 509 00:20:09,950 --> 00:20:07,919 so 510 00:20:12,529 --> 00:20:09,960 you know I think that these are all very 511 00:20:14,690 --> 00:20:12,539 important issues we have to stay as 512 00:20:16,610 --> 00:20:14,700 David said keep in mind very clearly 513 00:20:18,950 --> 00:20:16,620 very clearly 514 00:20:20,270 --> 00:20:18,960 but there's one of the professionals who 515 00:20:21,770 --> 00:20:20,280 was president who stated rather 516 00:20:23,930 --> 00:20:21,780 forcefully that it was absolutely 517 00:20:25,669 --> 00:20:23,940 impossible to do both investigation and 518 00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:25,679 therapy at the same time what do you 519 00:20:31,610 --> 00:20:27,360 some of these in it I like to address 520 00:20:34,909 --> 00:20:31,620 that okay indeed we wear many hats as it 521 00:20:37,070 --> 00:20:34,919 has been already stated a therapist is a 522 00:20:38,930 --> 00:20:37,080 natural data collector just because of 523 00:20:42,049 --> 00:20:38,940 the information the content of the 524 00:20:44,930 --> 00:20:42,059 session now as a therapist I focus on 525 00:20:47,510 --> 00:20:44,940 the symptoms the origin the treatment 526 00:20:49,549 --> 00:20:47,520 the resolution of that and in the 527 00:20:51,590 --> 00:20:49,559 process you may hear some pretty strange 528 00:20:54,350 --> 00:20:51,600 stuff and you're not going to Discount 529 00:20:56,330 --> 00:20:54,360 that especially if you've already judged 530 00:20:58,130 --> 00:20:56,340 the person to be saying you're you're 531 00:20:59,570 --> 00:20:58,140 naturally going to be collecting data 532 00:21:01,190 --> 00:20:59,580 and you're not going to just pitch it in 533 00:21:03,169 --> 00:21:01,200 the waste can especially with something 534 00:21:05,630 --> 00:21:03,179 so bizarre as this so 535 00:21:07,970 --> 00:21:05,640 at one point in the process you're the 536 00:21:10,750 --> 00:21:07,980 therapist you you're really tuning into 537 00:21:13,490 --> 00:21:10,760 the emotional needs but when those have 538 00:21:15,289 --> 00:21:13,500 subsided and the person is doing well 539 00:21:17,810 --> 00:21:15,299 then you can deal a lot more with the 540 00:21:20,090 --> 00:21:17,820 data side and you can switch hats you do 541 00:21:22,970 --> 00:21:20,100 not do both at the same time but you can 542 00:21:25,070 --> 00:21:22,980 switch hats in the process I think that 543 00:21:27,169 --> 00:21:25,080 a lot of the a lot of the problem here 544 00:21:29,510 --> 00:21:27,179 is in defining terms as it often is in 545 00:21:31,070 --> 00:21:29,520 discussions like this I think when 546 00:21:33,289 --> 00:21:31,080 people in this business use the term 547 00:21:35,470 --> 00:21:33,299 investigator they use it in the context 548 00:21:38,210 --> 00:21:35,480 of people who've gone out and examined 549 00:21:40,190 --> 00:21:38,220 ce1c2 and C3 cases they interview the 550 00:21:41,750 --> 00:21:40,200 people and they remain detached and they 551 00:21:43,250 --> 00:21:41,760 take pictures and they collect soil 552 00:21:46,610 --> 00:21:43,260 samples 553 00:21:49,970 --> 00:21:46,620 um and that's fine but uh 554 00:21:53,870 --> 00:21:49,980 as therapists we act as investigators of 555 00:21:55,549 --> 00:21:53,880 experience and that we cannot do that in 556 00:21:57,710 --> 00:21:55,559 a completely detached way and I don't 557 00:21:59,149 --> 00:21:57,720 think an investigator who does not call 558 00:22:00,950 --> 00:21:59,159 himself a therapist primarily still 559 00:22:02,750 --> 00:22:00,960 can't do it in a completely detached way 560 00:22:04,190 --> 00:22:02,760 most of the people who've been working 561 00:22:07,130 --> 00:22:04,200 in this as investigators have found 562 00:22:09,529 --> 00:22:07,140 themselves drawn into the support and 563 00:22:11,330 --> 00:22:09,539 the therapeutic aspects of what they're 564 00:22:13,490 --> 00:22:11,340 doing so we maybe we need a new word 565 00:22:14,570 --> 00:22:13,500 another investigator nor therapist but 566 00:22:16,549 --> 00:22:14,580 something else 567 00:22:17,570 --> 00:22:16,559 and I like to add one more point and 568 00:22:20,450 --> 00:22:17,580 that is 569 00:22:22,930 --> 00:22:20,460 it's it's hard to wear both hats so what 570 00:22:25,490 --> 00:22:22,940 many of us have already done is included 571 00:22:27,110 --> 00:22:25,500 an investigator now 572 00:22:29,330 --> 00:22:27,120 instead of thinking that they 573 00:22:32,090 --> 00:22:29,340 specifically deal with that part and I 574 00:22:34,490 --> 00:22:32,100 specifically deal with therapy 575 00:22:36,590 --> 00:22:34,500 um it's really like just having two 576 00:22:39,830 --> 00:22:36,600 heads two brains working on the problem 577 00:22:41,630 --> 00:22:39,840 it's really just a teamwork approach I'd 578 00:22:46,250 --> 00:22:41,640 like to mention one thing that's um 579 00:22:49,610 --> 00:22:46,260 about the Dual roles years ago when I 580 00:22:52,310 --> 00:22:49,620 first started with cases I was using a 581 00:22:54,110 --> 00:22:52,320 very psychiatrist and psychologists to 582 00:22:56,810 --> 00:22:54,120 do the hypnotic regressions 583 00:22:59,270 --> 00:22:56,820 uh and I was there in the role of taking 584 00:23:01,850 --> 00:22:59,280 notes and observing and so forth 585 00:23:03,289 --> 00:23:01,860 uh but the interesting thing was as soon 586 00:23:05,990 --> 00:23:03,299 as we left 587 00:23:08,210 --> 00:23:06,000 I would leave of course with subject 588 00:23:11,570 --> 00:23:08,220 the subject would be pouring out his or 589 00:23:14,090 --> 00:23:11,580 her heart to me about what had gone on 590 00:23:15,289 --> 00:23:14,100 the person would call me a little hours 591 00:23:16,789 --> 00:23:15,299 of the night we would have long 592 00:23:18,770 --> 00:23:16,799 discussions 593 00:23:20,450 --> 00:23:18,780 and autonomy at some point that in a 594 00:23:22,310 --> 00:23:20,460 peculiar way 595 00:23:23,930 --> 00:23:22,320 the person doing a hypnosis the 596 00:23:25,630 --> 00:23:23,940 psychologist was in a strange way the 597 00:23:27,710 --> 00:23:25,640 investigator and I was doing the therapy 598 00:23:29,330 --> 00:23:27,720 I was the one who was receiving the 599 00:23:32,510 --> 00:23:29,340 phone calls and trying to handle the 600 00:23:34,250 --> 00:23:32,520 person uh and the other person's role I 601 00:23:35,750 --> 00:23:34,260 mean that was not of course as clear-cut 602 00:23:37,850 --> 00:23:35,760 as that but it was a peculiar 603 00:23:40,789 --> 00:23:37,860 realization as to who was actually 604 00:23:42,590 --> 00:23:40,799 keeping that person afloat and what 605 00:23:44,210 --> 00:23:42,600 common sense skills one had to develop 606 00:23:47,810 --> 00:23:44,220 to do that 607 00:23:49,789 --> 00:23:47,820 um so I I agree with everything that's 608 00:23:52,010 --> 00:23:49,799 being said here is that it is extremely 609 00:23:54,470 --> 00:23:52,020 difficult to separate these roads 610 00:23:56,870 --> 00:23:54,480 yeah I'd like to also to agree with that 611 00:23:59,690 --> 00:23:56,880 of course it's uh it's it's difficult to 612 00:24:01,909 --> 00:23:59,700 to separate the roles and in a bit 613 00:24:04,370 --> 00:24:01,919 difficult to do therapy and to do 614 00:24:08,029 --> 00:24:04,380 investigation per se as such I mean this 615 00:24:10,070 --> 00:24:08,039 is a a very tough subject and uh I think 616 00:24:12,409 --> 00:24:10,080 it can be done with the specific with a 617 00:24:14,930 --> 00:24:12,419 sufficient amount of training I think 618 00:24:16,669 --> 00:24:14,940 that they're they're complementary and 619 00:24:18,350 --> 00:24:16,679 then I think that uh my own guess is 620 00:24:19,789 --> 00:24:18,360 that a therapist probably would work 621 00:24:21,890 --> 00:24:19,799 better knowing exactly what has happened 622 00:24:24,710 --> 00:24:21,900 to the individual so they know what to 623 00:24:26,149 --> 00:24:24,720 work with and what to work on and uh if 624 00:24:27,470 --> 00:24:26,159 you've been buying these two with a 625 00:24:29,810 --> 00:24:27,480 certain amount of insight and compassion 626 00:24:31,490 --> 00:24:29,820 and Humanity you'll find out what is 627 00:24:34,010 --> 00:24:31,500 happening and you'll also find out the 628 00:24:35,930 --> 00:24:34,020 best ways to approach treatment but this 629 00:24:39,110 --> 00:24:35,940 is it's not easy and most people as 630 00:24:41,630 --> 00:24:39,120 David you say or UFO researchers uh 631 00:24:43,789 --> 00:24:41,640 who've gone and investigated CE ones and 632 00:24:45,950 --> 00:24:43,799 so forth this is just not an area that 633 00:24:47,990 --> 00:24:45,960 that they're that's easy for them to get 634 00:24:51,070 --> 00:24:48,000 into you know it's very difficult I 635 00:24:53,830 --> 00:24:51,080 think you can sum this up in terms of 636 00:24:57,649 --> 00:24:53,840 compassion trust 637 00:24:59,990 --> 00:24:57,659 responsibility and open-mindedness 638 00:25:03,169 --> 00:25:00,000 in my own personal experience as an 639 00:25:05,770 --> 00:25:03,179 alleged investigator I find it very very 640 00:25:08,090 --> 00:25:05,780 difficult to do classical 641 00:25:10,610 --> 00:25:08,100 investigation I find myself being far 642 00:25:11,870 --> 00:25:10,620 more a therapist a counselor and I do 643 00:25:14,390 --> 00:25:11,880 not feel comfortable with that at all 644 00:25:16,190 --> 00:25:14,400 because I'm not trained to do that 645 00:25:17,990 --> 00:25:16,200 okay anybody else like to add anything 646 00:25:20,390 --> 00:25:18,000 to that 647 00:25:23,510 --> 00:25:20,400 okay then go ahead I'd like to add one 648 00:25:25,310 --> 00:25:23,520 more thing about that from time to time 649 00:25:28,010 --> 00:25:25,320 people will send me tapes or transcripts 650 00:25:29,450 --> 00:25:28,020 of Investigations that have been done 651 00:25:30,409 --> 00:25:29,460 and sometimes they're done by therapists 652 00:25:33,169 --> 00:25:30,419 and sometimes they're done by 653 00:25:35,510 --> 00:25:33,179 investigators and I I haven't really I 654 00:25:38,390 --> 00:25:35,520 found investigators who do terrific jobs 655 00:25:41,570 --> 00:25:38,400 in support in empathy and sensitivity 656 00:25:44,570 --> 00:25:41,580 and I found therapists who are who are 657 00:25:46,070 --> 00:25:44,580 very insensitive and very close-minded 658 00:25:48,230 --> 00:25:46,080 about what's happening and not very 659 00:25:50,049 --> 00:25:48,240 helpful to people as well I think I'm a 660 00:25:53,630 --> 00:25:50,059 pretty good empath 661 00:25:56,149 --> 00:25:53,640 well you know what I I read recently a 662 00:25:58,430 --> 00:25:56,159 review of somebody's book about the 663 00:26:00,110 --> 00:25:58,440 production phenomenon and I mean it was 664 00:26:02,210 --> 00:26:00,120 a blurb on the MacBook and it said that 665 00:26:05,570 --> 00:26:02,220 this person is doing the correct Thing 666 00:26:07,430 --> 00:26:05,580 by a dramatic thing by assuming that 667 00:26:09,710 --> 00:26:07,440 these experiences are real to the person 668 00:26:11,510 --> 00:26:09,720 to whom they happen and skipping the 669 00:26:12,409 --> 00:26:11,520 question as to whether the events are 670 00:26:14,090 --> 00:26:12,419 real 671 00:26:17,930 --> 00:26:14,100 event leather 672 00:26:19,070 --> 00:26:17,940 and occurrences and of course I think 673 00:26:21,409 --> 00:26:19,080 that that's got everything completely 674 00:26:23,029 --> 00:26:21,419 backwards because we all everyone would 675 00:26:25,190 --> 00:26:23,039 agree the experiences are real to the 676 00:26:27,110 --> 00:26:25,200 person whom they have even as the worst 677 00:26:30,230 --> 00:26:27,120 skeptic in the world would say it's real 678 00:26:32,570 --> 00:26:30,240 to that person and The crucial thing to 679 00:26:34,789 --> 00:26:32,580 find out is that these events occur in 680 00:26:36,769 --> 00:26:34,799 in the real world that's what that's 681 00:26:39,649 --> 00:26:36,779 what we should be concentrating on and I 682 00:26:41,630 --> 00:26:39,659 don't think that any kind of of 683 00:26:45,470 --> 00:26:41,640 really proper therapy could even be 684 00:26:48,110 --> 00:26:45,480 administered if one uh was trying to say 685 00:26:49,490 --> 00:26:48,120 for instance with an alleged rape that 686 00:26:51,529 --> 00:26:49,500 to the therapist it made no difference 687 00:26:53,870 --> 00:26:51,539 whether the person was raped or whether 688 00:26:55,370 --> 00:26:53,880 the person fantasized for rape I think 689 00:26:58,490 --> 00:26:55,380 this therapies would probably be quite 690 00:27:00,830 --> 00:26:58,500 difficult the problem is that 691 00:27:02,690 --> 00:27:00,840 for people who are a licensed therapist 692 00:27:03,890 --> 00:27:02,700 for instance they're presented with some 693 00:27:05,930 --> 00:27:03,900 first of all they're presented with 694 00:27:07,610 --> 00:27:05,940 somebody in pain in distress suffering 695 00:27:12,169 --> 00:27:07,620 post-traumatic stress disorder some 696 00:27:13,730 --> 00:27:12,179 other problem and they don't know uh one 697 00:27:15,590 --> 00:27:13,740 group of investigator might have a large 698 00:27:16,970 --> 00:27:15,600 number of cases and they know and they 699 00:27:19,549 --> 00:27:16,980 might go to a conference and they might 700 00:27:22,310 --> 00:27:19,559 know but in my position if I'm presented 701 00:27:24,710 --> 00:27:22,320 with somebody like that if I proceed on 702 00:27:26,450 --> 00:27:24,720 on the The Firm belief that this 703 00:27:28,549 --> 00:27:26,460 actually happened an event level reality 704 00:27:30,590 --> 00:27:28,559 whether I believe it's true or not 705 00:27:33,110 --> 00:27:30,600 whether whether in fact actually is true 706 00:27:35,630 --> 00:27:33,120 or not the end result of that could be 707 00:27:37,610 --> 00:27:35,640 that if I have a bad outcome from a case 708 00:27:39,169 --> 00:27:37,620 and all Physicians have bad outcomes 709 00:27:41,149 --> 00:27:39,179 from cases no matter how good they are 710 00:27:43,070 --> 00:27:41,159 and all investigators and all 711 00:27:44,630 --> 00:27:43,080 investigators we all do and someone 712 00:27:47,029 --> 00:27:44,640 makes a complaint 713 00:27:48,649 --> 00:27:47,039 then I end up having to be called in 714 00:27:50,630 --> 00:27:48,659 front of my disciplinary board to 715 00:27:52,909 --> 00:27:50,640 justify the fact that I was approaching 716 00:27:55,549 --> 00:27:52,919 this case as if this was an actual fact 717 00:27:57,350 --> 00:27:55,559 and that's very difficult to justify to 718 00:27:58,850 --> 00:27:57,360 a very conservative Medical Board and 719 00:28:01,250 --> 00:27:58,860 the end result of that kind of a 720 00:28:03,110 --> 00:28:01,260 situation is that I get shut down 721 00:28:04,909 --> 00:28:03,120 probably all the other therapists in 722 00:28:06,350 --> 00:28:04,919 town get shut down it hits the 723 00:28:09,470 --> 00:28:06,360 newspapers and there's this tremendous 724 00:28:11,570 --> 00:28:09,480 backlash so the therapists Are any are 725 00:28:14,450 --> 00:28:11,580 in a curious position of wanting to help 726 00:28:16,669 --> 00:28:14,460 the best they can and trying to walk 727 00:28:20,090 --> 00:28:16,679 this fine line so I wouldn't be too hard 728 00:28:23,870 --> 00:28:20,100 on the therapist your therapist but but 729 00:28:25,850 --> 00:28:23,880 I was I I think that what's before us is 730 00:28:27,470 --> 00:28:25,860 beyond the problem of whether the 731 00:28:29,029 --> 00:28:27,480 experience is a real to the people we 732 00:28:30,830 --> 00:28:29,039 should all agree that they are some 733 00:28:32,210 --> 00:28:30,840 people don't you see that yes even even 734 00:28:33,950 --> 00:28:32,220 saying that they're real to the people 735 00:28:38,570 --> 00:28:33,960 in in a conservative medical or a 736 00:28:44,510 --> 00:28:41,169 well some people think that 737 00:28:47,090 --> 00:28:44,520 napoleonish but I think you do make a 738 00:28:49,310 --> 00:28:47,100 good point because for us to think that 739 00:28:51,130 --> 00:28:49,320 we know all about reality that there is 740 00:28:54,350 --> 00:28:51,140 and then try to 741 00:28:56,149 --> 00:28:54,360 describe that to the patient it's a very 742 00:28:59,450 --> 00:28:56,159 tricky process because how can we be 743 00:29:01,370 --> 00:28:59,460 sure we have to some extent if they seem 744 00:29:03,890 --> 00:29:01,380 sane and and they have past 745 00:29:05,810 --> 00:29:03,900 psychological testing and they indicate 746 00:29:07,430 --> 00:29:05,820 these things are real we do have to at 747 00:29:08,630 --> 00:29:07,440 least consider that and that is where a 748 00:29:12,350 --> 00:29:08,640 lot of therapists do have a problem 749 00:29:14,330 --> 00:29:12,360 because given all that they still put 750 00:29:16,370 --> 00:29:14,340 the boundaries on what they believe and 751 00:29:17,810 --> 00:29:16,380 impart that to the patient it's very 752 00:29:19,549 --> 00:29:17,820 interesting to see when that happens 753 00:29:21,529 --> 00:29:19,559 because they will make they'll be 754 00:29:23,510 --> 00:29:21,539 logical logical logical he'll point out 755 00:29:25,310 --> 00:29:23,520 to them how logic dictates that they are 756 00:29:27,470 --> 00:29:25,320 not psychotic they are not hallucinating 757 00:29:30,169 --> 00:29:27,480 they don't suffer from organic illness 758 00:29:36,789 --> 00:29:30,179 therefore this must be happening at some 759 00:29:41,389 --> 00:29:39,350 you see this process with investigation 760 00:29:43,909 --> 00:29:41,399 too over the years with each decade that 761 00:29:46,310 --> 00:29:43,919 passes there's a certain chunk of this 762 00:29:47,990 --> 00:29:46,320 weirdness that we accept but there's 763 00:29:50,990 --> 00:29:48,000 still this little bit that's too weird 764 00:29:53,889 --> 00:29:51,000 yet and in in such an odd field to call 765 00:29:56,149 --> 00:29:53,899 anything weird is is something in itself 766 00:29:59,210 --> 00:29:56,159 oftentimes this problem though is is 767 00:30:01,430 --> 00:29:59,220 solved by by the ffp or the person in 768 00:30:02,930 --> 00:30:01,440 front of you uh many people come and 769 00:30:05,570 --> 00:30:02,940 they they want to know if this happened 770 00:30:08,990 --> 00:30:05,580 to me or am I crazy or did I invent this 771 00:30:10,669 --> 00:30:09,000 in some way and and uh but oftentimes uh 772 00:30:12,230 --> 00:30:10,679 what happens is somebody for instance I 773 00:30:14,510 --> 00:30:12,240 had a situation where I had an attorney 774 00:30:17,330 --> 00:30:14,520 who uh remembered so he had when he's 15 775 00:30:19,010 --> 00:30:17,340 years old and he remembered the whole 776 00:30:21,470 --> 00:30:19,020 sequence of events under investigation 777 00:30:24,769 --> 00:30:21,480 and after it was over the first words 778 00:30:25,850 --> 00:30:24,779 out of his mouth where that was real and 779 00:30:28,850 --> 00:30:25,860 there was no doubt in his mind 780 00:30:31,730 --> 00:30:28,860 whatsoever and we just went from there 781 00:30:33,470 --> 00:30:31,740 but if he was seeing a conventional 782 00:30:35,870 --> 00:30:33,480 therapist who didn't wasn't necessarily 783 00:30:37,669 --> 00:30:35,880 familiar with this I've had patients 784 00:30:39,889 --> 00:30:37,679 who've done that and they have left the 785 00:30:41,630 --> 00:30:39,899 therapist because the the client was 786 00:30:43,669 --> 00:30:41,640 sure it was real and the therapist was 787 00:30:45,409 --> 00:30:43,679 sure it was not real and even though 788 00:30:47,450 --> 00:30:45,419 they were working on other issues that 789 00:30:48,710 --> 00:30:47,460 created a crisis of trust and a loss of 790 00:30:51,769 --> 00:30:48,720 trust and they split it was very 791 00:30:54,950 --> 00:30:51,779 traumatic the few abductees that I've uh 792 00:30:56,990 --> 00:30:54,960 you know followed over a long time 793 00:30:58,430 --> 00:30:57,000 that came to several years since that's 794 00:31:01,909 --> 00:30:58,440 all as long as I've been interested in 795 00:31:03,409 --> 00:31:01,919 this uh I've talked to some who switched 796 00:31:04,490 --> 00:31:03,419 back and forth a couple times I don't 797 00:31:06,230 --> 00:31:04,500 know if you see that oh absolutely 798 00:31:07,490 --> 00:31:06,240 they'd start off saying yes it must have 799 00:31:08,750 --> 00:31:07,500 felt real they'd walk out of your house 800 00:31:10,310 --> 00:31:08,760 and think about it for a couple of weeks 801 00:31:13,370 --> 00:31:10,320 and they said that couldn't have been 802 00:31:15,649 --> 00:31:13,380 real yeah I think that we we cannot 803 00:31:17,570 --> 00:31:15,659 overestimate the power of denial and a 804 00:31:20,289 --> 00:31:17,580 need for denial that's on the part I 805 00:31:23,210 --> 00:31:20,299 understand the Skeptics I I understand 806 00:31:25,789 --> 00:31:23,220 all the way down to the abductee himself 807 00:31:27,590 --> 00:31:25,799 or herself the basic need to put this on 808 00:31:29,090 --> 00:31:27,600 some shelf this cannot have happened and 809 00:31:32,269 --> 00:31:29,100 one of the most dramatic things that 810 00:31:33,230 --> 00:31:32,279 occurs all the time to me is when there 811 00:31:35,450 --> 00:31:33,240 is some 812 00:31:38,870 --> 00:31:35,460 bit of evidence or something that the 813 00:31:41,090 --> 00:31:38,880 abductee realizes is uh confirmatory of 814 00:31:43,669 --> 00:31:41,100 the of the truth of their experience for 815 00:31:46,430 --> 00:31:43,679 instance someone in a couple of cases 816 00:31:47,990 --> 00:31:46,440 have drawn exactly the same notational 817 00:31:50,269 --> 00:31:48,000 symbols that they've seen inside a ship 818 00:31:52,490 --> 00:31:50,279 as as my subject did when the subject 819 00:31:54,110 --> 00:31:52,500 was shown the other person's drawing 820 00:31:55,789 --> 00:31:54,120 which I've done twice now probably 821 00:31:58,310 --> 00:31:55,799 incorrectly 822 00:32:01,070 --> 00:31:58,320 uh that person both those people burst 823 00:32:03,649 --> 00:32:01,080 into tears they could not handle the 824 00:32:06,110 --> 00:32:03,659 fact that they're it's what they regard 825 00:32:08,690 --> 00:32:06,120 as their last ability to deny had been 826 00:32:11,690 --> 00:32:08,700 taken away from them this is disruptive 827 00:32:14,750 --> 00:32:11,700 of the entire fabric of society as we 828 00:32:16,370 --> 00:32:14,760 know it and it's there is a reason to 829 00:32:18,169 --> 00:32:16,380 deny it from every single solitary 830 00:32:19,430 --> 00:32:18,179 perspective especially the perspective 831 00:32:22,549 --> 00:32:19,440 of the people who are having these 832 00:32:23,930 --> 00:32:22,559 experiences many uh abductees gave us a 833 00:32:25,850 --> 00:32:23,940 very clear message during this 834 00:32:30,169 --> 00:32:25,860 conference and they would prefer to be 835 00:32:32,210 --> 00:32:30,179 crazy as opposed to that experience all 836 00:32:33,590 --> 00:32:32,220 of which brings about the brings us back 837 00:32:35,990 --> 00:32:33,600 to the importance of a conference like 838 00:32:38,690 --> 00:32:36,000 this and informing the Therapeutic 839 00:32:40,549 --> 00:32:38,700 Community of just what might be out 840 00:32:43,190 --> 00:32:40,559 there I'll look for it and not 841 00:32:45,950 --> 00:32:43,200 misdiagnose it I I can't think of 842 00:32:47,590 --> 00:32:45,960 anything more horrifying than some of 843 00:32:50,510 --> 00:32:47,600 the stories I've heard about 844 00:32:52,269 --> 00:32:50,520 the experience being drugged or even 845 00:32:55,130 --> 00:32:52,279 committed 846 00:32:58,310 --> 00:32:55,140 because no one recognized what might 847 00:33:00,230 --> 00:32:58,320 really be going on I want an interject a 848 00:33:03,110 --> 00:33:00,240 brief cautionary note here not that I'm 849 00:33:04,430 --> 00:33:03,120 arguing against the reality in 850 00:33:08,029 --> 00:33:04,440 particularly but one of the things that 851 00:33:09,830 --> 00:33:08,039 my eyes certainly were opened up by you 852 00:33:12,350 --> 00:33:09,840 know are organizing this thing together 853 00:33:14,930 --> 00:33:12,360 and then hearing the speakers was the 854 00:33:18,710 --> 00:33:14,940 fact that there are these other mental 855 00:33:23,810 --> 00:33:18,720 well that they're excuse me in the case 856 00:33:25,930 --> 00:33:23,820 of uh the ritual abuse you you have uh a 857 00:33:27,889 --> 00:33:25,940 lot of the same kinds of things 858 00:33:29,269 --> 00:33:27,899 multiple personality personality 859 00:33:30,950 --> 00:33:29,279 disorders that result from these 860 00:33:34,490 --> 00:33:30,960 experiences your people drawing pictures 861 00:33:36,169 --> 00:33:34,500 that uh look extremely similar and then 862 00:33:38,810 --> 00:33:36,179 you have a large fraction of the 863 00:33:41,450 --> 00:33:38,820 community investigating them saying with 864 00:33:44,810 --> 00:33:41,460 that these aren't real experiences you 865 00:33:46,370 --> 00:33:44,820 know so uh there are these parallels I 866 00:33:48,289 --> 00:33:46,380 used to think that when you had two 867 00:33:50,269 --> 00:33:48,299 independent people who do the same 868 00:33:52,970 --> 00:33:50,279 picture well there must be some real 869 00:33:54,950 --> 00:33:52,980 cause for that now I don't feel that way 870 00:33:56,810 --> 00:33:54,960 so strong here well I don't understand 871 00:33:59,810 --> 00:33:56,820 why don't you feel so strongly because 872 00:34:02,450 --> 00:33:59,820 in the case of the ritual abuse I mean 873 00:34:04,070 --> 00:34:02,460 the picture shown by different people of 874 00:34:06,110 --> 00:34:04,080 you know just how they were held down 875 00:34:07,549 --> 00:34:06,120 and so on and so forth you know where 876 00:34:09,409 --> 00:34:07,559 the bottle of blood was and stuff like 877 00:34:12,349 --> 00:34:09,419 that they're very similar those pictures 878 00:34:14,810 --> 00:34:12,359 and and uh yet they're there are people 879 00:34:17,089 --> 00:34:14,820 who argue by cogently they were here at 880 00:34:19,849 --> 00:34:17,099 the conference that these experiences 881 00:34:21,770 --> 00:34:19,859 did not actually occur 882 00:34:23,210 --> 00:34:21,780 and so and then there were the business 883 00:34:26,270 --> 00:34:23,220 of some of the people in the ritual 884 00:34:29,149 --> 00:34:26,280 abuse groups having shared uh shared 885 00:34:32,089 --> 00:34:29,159 dreams too so I don't know I mean I'm 886 00:34:34,250 --> 00:34:32,099 not it's just a I don't know where that 887 00:34:36,230 --> 00:34:34,260 how that fits into this but it is 888 00:34:37,849 --> 00:34:36,240 disturbing okay but it is disturbing 889 00:34:40,430 --> 00:34:37,859 there is one thing that has to be 890 00:34:42,530 --> 00:34:40,440 remembered though you can start finding 891 00:34:44,750 --> 00:34:42,540 parallels between abductions and a lot 892 00:34:47,149 --> 00:34:44,760 of other phenomena and at a level of 893 00:34:49,369 --> 00:34:47,159 abstraction it'll work quite well but 894 00:34:53,329 --> 00:34:49,379 when you start getting down to looking 895 00:34:55,369 --> 00:34:53,339 at it Case by case very carefully you 896 00:34:59,570 --> 00:34:55,379 begin to see certain consistent 897 00:35:02,930 --> 00:34:59,580 differences the the shamanic initiation 898 00:35:05,270 --> 00:35:02,940 phenomena has often been cited as a 899 00:35:08,510 --> 00:35:05,280 direct parallel and yes but you can find 900 00:35:10,730 --> 00:35:08,520 all kinds of of uh points of similarity 901 00:35:13,550 --> 00:35:10,740 but there are also some very significant 902 00:35:17,030 --> 00:35:13,560 differences and there does seem to be 903 00:35:20,290 --> 00:35:17,040 overall in that that core 904 00:35:23,390 --> 00:35:20,300 production phenomenon a coherency 905 00:35:24,650 --> 00:35:23,400 that's that's somehow qualitatively 906 00:35:27,650 --> 00:35:24,660 different 907 00:35:29,630 --> 00:35:27,660 I don't I would also uh along the lines 908 00:35:33,589 --> 00:35:29,640 you're saying say that the fact that you 909 00:35:35,930 --> 00:35:33,599 often see uh multiple Witnesses uh to 910 00:35:38,630 --> 00:35:35,940 some events that are corroboratory at 911 00:35:41,589 --> 00:35:38,640 the beginning of the experience of you 912 00:35:44,210 --> 00:35:41,599 know several people see the UFO and uh 913 00:35:45,829 --> 00:35:44,220 indicate that this one has seemed to 914 00:35:48,230 --> 00:35:45,839 have more power to bring in several 915 00:35:50,450 --> 00:35:48,240 people together in a testimonially 916 00:35:52,130 --> 00:35:50,460 documented fashion they're not just 917 00:35:54,890 --> 00:35:52,140 abuse right and not just at the 918 00:35:57,430 --> 00:35:54,900 beginning if you take a case like Barney 919 00:35:59,930 --> 00:35:57,440 and Betty Hill they had complementary 920 00:36:02,750 --> 00:35:59,940 abductions some people have said that 921 00:36:04,670 --> 00:36:02,760 okay Barney picked up Betty's dreams but 922 00:36:07,430 --> 00:36:04,680 with implied it was his internal 923 00:36:09,170 --> 00:36:07,440 experiences complementary to hers and 924 00:36:11,750 --> 00:36:09,180 not identical to hers 925 00:36:13,609 --> 00:36:11,760 one of the important ideas that came out 926 00:36:17,270 --> 00:36:13,619 of this for me a crystallization of an 927 00:36:19,849 --> 00:36:17,280 idea was the idea of clustering that 928 00:36:21,950 --> 00:36:19,859 stuff that that we may be dealing with a 929 00:36:23,870 --> 00:36:21,960 group of clusters a phenomena that as 930 00:36:25,370 --> 00:36:23,880 you say have certain parallels at a 931 00:36:26,870 --> 00:36:25,380 level of abstraction but when you get 932 00:36:28,130 --> 00:36:26,880 past that level of abstraction they 933 00:36:30,950 --> 00:36:28,140 actually separate on into distinct 934 00:36:32,390 --> 00:36:30,960 events but from the point of view of a 935 00:36:34,190 --> 00:36:32,400 therapist or an investigator that is 936 00:36:35,930 --> 00:36:34,200 seeing somebody cold off the street 937 00:36:37,910 --> 00:36:35,940 they've had an experience that's beyond 938 00:36:40,550 --> 00:36:37,920 their conception they haven't done all 939 00:36:42,710 --> 00:36:40,560 the reading into shamanic rituals uh 940 00:36:45,230 --> 00:36:42,720 Satanic ritual abuse abductions and a 941 00:36:47,630 --> 00:36:45,240 host of other things so they what what 942 00:36:50,089 --> 00:36:47,640 probably ends up happening is that they 943 00:36:51,770 --> 00:36:50,099 identify with the closest parallel that 944 00:36:53,390 --> 00:36:51,780 they encounter first and then they end 945 00:36:55,370 --> 00:36:53,400 up presenting to a worker in that field 946 00:36:57,050 --> 00:36:55,380 and it's it's the responsibility of each 947 00:36:58,849 --> 00:36:57,060 worker in those fields that share 948 00:37:01,730 --> 00:36:58,859 certain parallels to educate themselves 949 00:37:04,430 --> 00:37:01,740 about all the Clusters to be able to 950 00:37:06,710 --> 00:37:04,440 redirect the person appropriately 951 00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:06,720 yeah I couldn't agree more and one thing 952 00:37:11,270 --> 00:37:08,760 that came out in this conference was 953 00:37:14,870 --> 00:37:11,280 that there does seem to be a variety of 954 00:37:18,170 --> 00:37:14,880 causes that may have you know call have 955 00:37:20,750 --> 00:37:18,180 similar effects on people and I I don't 956 00:37:23,990 --> 00:37:20,760 envy the therapists position of having 957 00:37:25,970 --> 00:37:24,000 to try and sort out the you know and it 958 00:37:26,930 --> 00:37:25,980 as it may be necessary to do in some 959 00:37:29,390 --> 00:37:26,940 cases 960 00:37:31,550 --> 00:37:29,400 given these various complications that 961 00:37:35,630 --> 00:37:31,560 arise let's talk a little bit more about 962 00:37:38,030 --> 00:37:35,640 the teen team concept of Investigation I 963 00:37:40,310 --> 00:37:38,040 assume most of you agree with that I 964 00:37:42,530 --> 00:37:40,320 General notion if you don't feel free to 965 00:37:45,170 --> 00:37:42,540 say so but what would be some of your 966 00:37:48,290 --> 00:37:45,180 recommendations for an appropriate 967 00:37:48,300 --> 00:37:51,230 anybody 968 00:37:55,609 --> 00:37:52,730 well 969 00:37:59,450 --> 00:37:55,619 that's a very difficult question to 970 00:38:01,370 --> 00:37:59,460 answer to answer it generically I think 971 00:38:03,770 --> 00:38:01,380 there should there should be in a team 972 00:38:04,870 --> 00:38:03,780 both psychotherapeutically trained 973 00:38:11,990 --> 00:38:04,880 resources 974 00:38:15,109 --> 00:38:12,000 so many of the people that I've worked 975 00:38:16,670 --> 00:38:15,119 with one of the first questions first 976 00:38:18,829 --> 00:38:16,680 question that almost always comes up is 977 00:38:21,109 --> 00:38:18,839 can I talk to other people that have had 978 00:38:22,490 --> 00:38:21,119 this experience so these are basic 979 00:38:24,290 --> 00:38:22,500 resources that I think should be 980 00:38:25,849 --> 00:38:24,300 available the order in which they're 981 00:38:28,010 --> 00:38:25,859 used in the proportion which they're 982 00:38:29,329 --> 00:38:28,020 used is a very difficult question I 983 00:38:30,650 --> 00:38:29,339 think it's part of what we're all still 984 00:38:32,630 --> 00:38:30,660 debating 985 00:38:35,690 --> 00:38:32,640 I can add to that in terms of talking 986 00:38:38,870 --> 00:38:35,700 about the integration of those resources 987 00:38:40,849 --> 00:38:38,880 uh the therapist who's interested in 988 00:38:43,370 --> 00:38:40,859 helping may be lacking a great deal in 989 00:38:45,470 --> 00:38:43,380 the knowledge and phenomenon and needs 990 00:38:47,150 --> 00:38:45,480 that from the investigator investigators 991 00:38:50,089 --> 00:38:47,160 lacking in the understanding of 992 00:38:52,550 --> 00:38:50,099 emotional trauma and the sensitivity and 993 00:38:55,450 --> 00:38:52,560 timing of such interventions to resolve 994 00:38:57,430 --> 00:38:55,460 it or even wedding causes such symptoms 995 00:39:01,250 --> 00:38:57,440 and 996 00:39:02,510 --> 00:39:01,260 the experiencer can be there as the 997 00:39:04,849 --> 00:39:02,520 support person well actually everybody 998 00:39:07,310 --> 00:39:04,859 ends up being a support person but at 999 00:39:10,130 --> 00:39:07,320 least they have that unique perspective 1000 00:39:11,410 --> 00:39:10,140 which the others of us assume we don't 1001 00:39:14,810 --> 00:39:11,420 have 1002 00:39:16,490 --> 00:39:14,820 and you blend those together nicely with 1003 00:39:18,650 --> 00:39:16,500 the therapist basically retaining 1004 00:39:21,470 --> 00:39:18,660 control during hypnosis sessions but 1005 00:39:24,710 --> 00:39:21,480 getting information from the others and 1006 00:39:27,710 --> 00:39:24,720 then as Bud mentioned earlier the others 1007 00:39:30,530 --> 00:39:27,720 can become support persons it happens 1008 00:39:31,690 --> 00:39:30,540 anyway so you might as well organize it 1009 00:39:34,550 --> 00:39:31,700 that way 1010 00:39:37,730 --> 00:39:34,560 well interesting one of the uh 1011 00:39:39,770 --> 00:39:37,740 situations when it was described that a 1012 00:39:43,310 --> 00:39:39,780 teen should be working with one person a 1013 00:39:44,630 --> 00:39:43,320 therapist investigator and an experience 1014 00:39:46,609 --> 00:39:44,640 here how did I tell you whatever you 1015 00:39:48,050 --> 00:39:46,619 want to say uh I would have added to 1016 00:39:50,589 --> 00:39:48,060 that of course that's ideally wonderful 1017 00:39:53,150 --> 00:39:50,599 we should also have a radiologist 1018 00:39:55,190 --> 00:39:53,160 a lot of money and so forth to help with 1019 00:39:58,010 --> 00:39:55,200 the investigation the point is that we 1020 00:40:00,109 --> 00:39:58,020 are spread incredibly thinly because we 1021 00:40:01,849 --> 00:40:00,119 are facing a gigantic problem with 1022 00:40:03,410 --> 00:40:01,859 enormous numbers of people who were 1023 00:40:05,750 --> 00:40:03,420 crying for help and are very very 1024 00:40:07,670 --> 00:40:05,760 confused we do the best we can with the 1025 00:40:11,569 --> 00:40:07,680 resources we have in the very nature of 1026 00:40:12,890 --> 00:40:11,579 a meeting such as this was uh this is a 1027 00:40:15,170 --> 00:40:12,900 kind of subtext 1028 00:40:17,569 --> 00:40:15,180 the idea that we're 1029 00:40:19,849 --> 00:40:17,579 we're begging people to attended the 1030 00:40:21,770 --> 00:40:19,859 conference to put their own bodies on 1031 00:40:24,530 --> 00:40:21,780 the line and uh 1032 00:40:27,650 --> 00:40:24,540 begin to Cade in in the investigation 1033 00:40:29,150 --> 00:40:27,660 this problem it's it's almost a luxury 1034 00:40:31,490 --> 00:40:29,160 to sit around and talk about what would 1035 00:40:34,190 --> 00:40:31,500 be ideal when I'm sure we have now if 1036 00:40:38,450 --> 00:40:34,200 the resources are so thin and we're so 1037 00:40:40,430 --> 00:40:38,460 strained uh that uh just if we could 1038 00:40:44,030 --> 00:40:40,440 triple what we have right now it would 1039 00:40:46,130 --> 00:40:44,040 just be a mere beginning well bud it's 1040 00:40:47,930 --> 00:40:46,140 not only ideal it's exactly the way I've 1041 00:40:51,589 --> 00:40:47,940 operated the last three years so it's 1042 00:40:54,730 --> 00:40:51,599 entirely possible I I think it's time 1043 00:40:58,130 --> 00:40:54,740 and I agree with you on the flood of 1044 00:41:00,770 --> 00:40:58,140 needs they're coming at us it's time we 1045 00:41:02,450 --> 00:41:00,780 train more because we don't have a 1046 00:41:05,210 --> 00:41:02,460 hundred Bud Hopkins we need a hundred 1047 00:41:06,770 --> 00:41:05,220 Bud Hopkins but we need to really bring 1048 00:41:07,790 --> 00:41:06,780 in people and really start training 1049 00:41:10,790 --> 00:41:07,800 exactly 1050 00:41:13,310 --> 00:41:10,800 and then we have to somehow systematize 1051 00:41:16,010 --> 00:41:13,320 the referral of the training uh getting 1052 00:41:17,690 --> 00:41:16,020 everyone together up there too and get 1053 00:41:20,750 --> 00:41:17,700 rid of these big boxes of letters 1054 00:41:22,190 --> 00:41:20,760 because uh right now we have this to 1055 00:41:24,109 --> 00:41:22,200 work out a series of protocols so that 1056 00:41:25,730 --> 00:41:24,119 when a person comes to us and says 1057 00:41:27,530 --> 00:41:25,740 something might have happened a whole 1058 00:41:29,630 --> 00:41:27,540 set of procedures can be set in motion 1059 00:41:31,370 --> 00:41:29,640 meaning ultimately to the treatment 1060 00:41:32,870 --> 00:41:31,380 investigation and everything and right 1061 00:41:35,150 --> 00:41:32,880 now people are just sort of doing it as 1062 00:41:37,250 --> 00:41:35,160 best they can sometimes in your case it 1063 00:41:38,690 --> 00:41:37,260 works out well for other cases that 1064 00:41:41,210 --> 00:41:38,700 people just have to do it alone some 1065 00:41:43,430 --> 00:41:41,220 people have some support some don't it's 1066 00:41:46,190 --> 00:41:43,440 a situation that's not ideal but as Bud 1067 00:41:47,690 --> 00:41:46,200 says and as you're saying essentially we 1068 00:41:49,670 --> 00:41:47,700 need to train more people we need to get 1069 00:41:52,130 --> 00:41:49,680 more help and I think that that's going 1070 00:41:54,410 --> 00:41:52,140 to come I think that almost all the time 1071 00:41:56,030 --> 00:41:54,420 we have people coming forward offering 1072 00:41:59,390 --> 00:41:56,040 to help and offering to do more things 1073 00:42:04,250 --> 00:41:59,400 and I'm fairly optimistic about this 1074 00:42:05,750 --> 00:42:04,260 anybody else well I don't know how I 1075 00:42:07,490 --> 00:42:05,760 think this has some degree of importance 1076 00:42:08,990 --> 00:42:07,500 in the overall scheme of things it's a 1077 00:42:10,370 --> 00:42:09,000 it's a side point to what you mentioned 1078 00:42:12,710 --> 00:42:10,380 but glad you went off probably more 1079 00:42:15,650 --> 00:42:12,720 important in the immediate Direction uh 1080 00:42:17,450 --> 00:42:15,660 I I'm I believe myself at least to be a 1081 00:42:20,089 --> 00:42:17,460 non-experiencer that is nothing unusual 1082 00:42:21,290 --> 00:42:20,099 has ever really happened to me I have a 1083 00:42:22,730 --> 00:42:21,300 great sympathy for what these people are 1084 00:42:24,650 --> 00:42:22,740 going through and yet there is a point 1085 00:42:26,810 --> 00:42:24,660 Beyond which I just cannot really 1086 00:42:29,210 --> 00:42:26,820 understand because it's beyond our 1087 00:42:31,730 --> 00:42:29,220 consensus reality on the other hand one 1088 00:42:34,670 --> 00:42:31,740 of the advantages of that is a certain 1089 00:42:37,069 --> 00:42:34,680 objectivity and it's also a kind of 1090 00:42:37,670 --> 00:42:37,079 groundedness that is 1091 00:42:39,710 --> 00:42:37,680 um 1092 00:42:41,510 --> 00:42:39,720 I encourage people to explore their 1093 00:42:43,550 --> 00:42:41,520 experiences fully and to come to terms 1094 00:42:45,829 --> 00:42:43,560 with it but I'm also in some ways kind 1095 00:42:47,569 --> 00:42:45,839 of a reminder that a lot of their 1096 00:42:49,910 --> 00:42:47,579 immediate life is still back here and 1097 00:42:51,530 --> 00:42:49,920 this realm and I find that in the 1098 00:42:53,690 --> 00:42:51,540 Dynamics that go on in my work that 1099 00:42:55,430 --> 00:42:53,700 provides a really nice balance 1100 00:42:57,349 --> 00:42:55,440 so I think somehow we also have to 1101 00:43:00,530 --> 00:42:57,359 integrate that into the overall process 1102 00:43:03,410 --> 00:43:00,540 it's almost as if all of us 1103 00:43:04,970 --> 00:43:03,420 are adjusting I mean we focus on them as 1104 00:43:07,670 --> 00:43:04,980 making adjustments but we are making 1105 00:43:10,069 --> 00:43:07,680 adjustments as well and it's it's almost 1106 00:43:11,210 --> 00:43:10,079 like a grieving process of what we have 1107 00:43:14,510 --> 00:43:11,220 always known 1108 00:43:16,309 --> 00:43:14,520 we have lost that and we are having to 1109 00:43:19,550 --> 00:43:16,319 go through the different phases of 1110 00:43:21,650 --> 00:43:19,560 grieving that and accepting a whole new 1111 00:43:24,010 --> 00:43:21,660 way of looking at things which abductees 1112 00:43:27,589 --> 00:43:24,020 in many cases are well ahead of us 1113 00:43:30,170 --> 00:43:27,599 I think that uh just a second one 1114 00:43:32,210 --> 00:43:30,180 David just said about reminding the 1115 00:43:34,970 --> 00:43:32,220 people about where the real life lies 1116 00:43:37,730 --> 00:43:34,980 part of my whole approach to what I do 1117 00:43:40,809 --> 00:43:37,740 when I work with people is the dad very 1118 00:43:43,309 --> 00:43:40,819 thing to point out that that we spend 1119 00:43:44,750 --> 00:43:43,319 99.999 and whatever percent of our life 1120 00:43:47,170 --> 00:43:44,760 here on this Earth no matter what 1121 00:43:50,750 --> 00:43:47,180 strange things are happening 1122 00:43:52,010 --> 00:43:50,760 and in order to accent that and I have a 1123 00:44:01,130 --> 00:43:52,020 support group 1124 00:44:04,010 --> 00:44:01,140 uh 50 party and 50 percent uh discussing 1125 00:44:05,329 --> 00:44:04,020 issues because the party aspect have to 1126 00:44:07,370 --> 00:44:05,339 feel that you can be with other people 1127 00:44:09,170 --> 00:44:07,380 have the same crazy experience as you 1128 00:44:11,089 --> 00:44:09,180 had and yet those people are interesting 1129 00:44:12,589 --> 00:44:11,099 and intelligent and fun to talk to and 1130 00:44:15,950 --> 00:44:12,599 you can sit around with a glass of wine 1131 00:44:17,770 --> 00:44:15,960 or a cup of coffee and be a real alive 1132 00:44:20,089 --> 00:44:17,780 human being in the real life Community 1133 00:44:23,510 --> 00:44:20,099 uh which where you accept it is 1134 00:44:25,490 --> 00:44:23,520 extremely important and I don't ever try 1135 00:44:27,589 --> 00:44:25,500 to focus the support group thing in 1136 00:44:30,410 --> 00:44:27,599 terms of just even amount of max amount 1137 00:44:31,910 --> 00:44:30,420 of time on to the UFO subject I think 1138 00:44:33,470 --> 00:44:31,920 that this groundedness is one of the 1139 00:44:35,210 --> 00:44:33,480 most important therapeutic things we can 1140 00:44:37,250 --> 00:44:35,220 do it doesn't doesn't take a therapist 1141 00:44:40,130 --> 00:44:37,260 to help somebody have a nice time in the 1142 00:44:42,890 --> 00:44:40,140 real world with with some companions who 1143 00:44:45,950 --> 00:44:42,900 you can come to love and respect who've 1144 00:44:47,809 --> 00:44:47,210 okay 1145 00:44:50,450 --> 00:44:47,819 um 1146 00:44:52,309 --> 00:44:50,460 let's talk a little while now about uh 1147 00:44:53,990 --> 00:44:52,319 what's next on the agenda Where Do We Go 1148 00:44:56,450 --> 00:44:54,000 From Here what's what's the state of the 1149 00:44:58,910 --> 00:44:56,460 art and in that same context Suppose 1150 00:45:01,609 --> 00:44:58,920 there are people watching this who may 1151 00:45:05,290 --> 00:45:01,619 be experiencers if anybody has any 1152 00:45:07,130 --> 00:45:05,300 recommendations on them 1153 00:45:08,870 --> 00:45:07,140 [Music] 1154 00:45:11,210 --> 00:45:08,880 interject something a little bit ahead 1155 00:45:12,970 --> 00:45:11,220 of that okay because I wanted to discuss 1156 00:45:15,890 --> 00:45:12,980 what to me was one of the important 1157 00:45:18,770 --> 00:45:15,900 outcomes or realizations I think many 1158 00:45:20,809 --> 00:45:18,780 people at the conference and that uh 1159 00:45:24,290 --> 00:45:20,819 which also has its antidote and that is 1160 00:45:25,990 --> 00:45:24,300 that you know it seems from the Roper 1161 00:45:28,730 --> 00:45:26,000 pole that a lot of people have symptoms 1162 00:45:30,349 --> 00:45:28,740 that are associated in Reverse Direction 1163 00:45:33,470 --> 00:45:30,359 uh with 1164 00:45:35,569 --> 00:45:33,480 um being an experiencer and there are a 1165 00:45:38,270 --> 00:45:35,579 couple of studies with very low 1166 00:45:41,569 --> 00:45:38,280 statistics presented that indicate that 1167 00:45:42,770 --> 00:45:41,579 these may be used as questions the some 1168 00:45:45,349 --> 00:45:42,780 of the questions like the ones in the 1169 00:45:47,870 --> 00:45:45,359 broker poll may be in fact used to pull 1170 00:45:50,990 --> 00:45:47,880 out uh people who are experiencers and 1171 00:45:52,550 --> 00:45:51,000 this on the one hand indicates that the 1172 00:45:54,650 --> 00:45:52,560 fraction of experiences in the general 1173 00:45:57,950 --> 00:45:54,660 population is tremendously High maybe in 1174 00:46:00,770 --> 00:45:57,960 the low percent level 1175 00:46:03,230 --> 00:46:00,780 um and now that cuts both ways the first 1176 00:46:04,910 --> 00:46:03,240 way it cuts is it means that the sample 1177 00:46:06,589 --> 00:46:04,920 of people we've gotten are only one 1178 00:46:08,270 --> 00:46:06,599 thousand the tip of the tip of the tip 1179 00:46:09,950 --> 00:46:08,280 of the iceberg and so the way that we've 1180 00:46:12,589 --> 00:46:09,960 selected them inadvertently or the way 1181 00:46:16,130 --> 00:46:12,599 they've selected themselves is is a 1182 00:46:18,109 --> 00:46:16,140 tremendous possible source of bias on 1183 00:46:20,809 --> 00:46:18,119 what's really out there on the other 1184 00:46:23,150 --> 00:46:20,819 hand the fact that this is such a 1185 00:46:25,130 --> 00:46:23,160 prevalent uh seems to be such a 1186 00:46:26,990 --> 00:46:25,140 prevalent thing in uh the general 1187 00:46:30,650 --> 00:46:27,000 population means that we can select 1188 00:46:32,089 --> 00:46:30,660 people uh in a very unbiased way we can 1189 00:46:33,890 --> 00:46:32,099 go out and search them out for instance 1190 00:46:35,390 --> 00:46:33,900 the people who responded with four or 1191 00:46:37,670 --> 00:46:35,400 five positives in the broker poll and I 1192 00:46:39,349 --> 00:46:37,680 think it's clear that these people 1193 00:46:41,870 --> 00:46:39,359 should be followed up and they will be 1194 00:46:44,750 --> 00:46:41,880 followed up even given the tremendous 1195 00:46:46,370 --> 00:46:44,760 overload that we have among the 1196 00:46:48,950 --> 00:46:46,380 investigators and therapists yes but 1197 00:46:50,950 --> 00:46:48,960 given that they uh often do this on 1198 00:46:53,089 --> 00:46:50,960 their own timetable how is that going to 1199 00:46:56,390 --> 00:46:53,099 affect things if you go out and start 1200 00:47:00,170 --> 00:46:56,400 trying to push them now you you have to 1201 00:47:02,089 --> 00:47:00,180 wait until they see or feeling need to 1202 00:47:03,290 --> 00:47:02,099 explore it they may have these symptoms 1203 00:47:05,450 --> 00:47:03,300 but they may not want to do anything 1204 00:47:07,309 --> 00:47:05,460 that's right or certainly not a number 1205 00:47:09,170 --> 00:47:07,319 of them indicate in the poll that 1206 00:47:10,910 --> 00:47:09,180 they're willing to be followed up so you 1207 00:47:13,069 --> 00:47:10,920 can follow up and explore this issue 1208 00:47:15,290 --> 00:47:13,079 okay yeah I can share your view that you 1209 00:47:17,030 --> 00:47:15,300 shouldn't push anyone into therapy or or 1210 00:47:18,829 --> 00:47:17,040 investigation it doesn't yeah I 1211 00:47:19,970 --> 00:47:18,839 certainly agree with that I think that 1212 00:47:21,470 --> 00:47:19,980 the next thing that has to be done 1213 00:47:22,670 --> 00:47:21,480 however and one of the more important 1214 00:47:24,410 --> 00:47:22,680 ideas that I've gotten from the 1215 00:47:26,210 --> 00:47:24,420 conference is that we must have a a 1216 00:47:28,730 --> 00:47:26,220 standardization in methodology 1217 00:47:30,770 --> 00:47:28,740 methodology and in treatment that is 1218 00:47:33,290 --> 00:47:30,780 agreed upon by by most people who do 1219 00:47:34,670 --> 00:47:33,300 this sort of work uh I think that this 1220 00:47:36,170 --> 00:47:34,680 is extremely important so that we can 1221 00:47:38,510 --> 00:47:36,180 learn what the parameters of this 1222 00:47:41,089 --> 00:47:38,520 phenomenon are and also so we can learn 1223 00:47:43,370 --> 00:47:41,099 the proper modes of treatments uh I 1224 00:47:44,750 --> 00:47:43,380 think this is coming but uh right now we 1225 00:47:47,510 --> 00:47:44,760 still have an awful lot of work to do 1226 00:47:49,250 --> 00:47:47,520 with that and uh of course we also need 1227 00:47:51,170 --> 00:47:49,260 as we mentioned before we need to Simply 1228 00:47:52,550 --> 00:47:51,180 enlist more people in doing this and the 1229 00:47:53,870 --> 00:47:52,560 world proposed study has shown that 1230 00:47:55,790 --> 00:47:53,880 there's an awful lot of therapists out 1231 00:47:57,829 --> 00:47:55,800 there who are willing to donate their 1232 00:47:59,450 --> 00:47:57,839 time until at least to look look into it 1233 00:48:00,950 --> 00:47:59,460 further and we hope that we'll be able 1234 00:48:02,329 --> 00:48:00,960 to get a significant number of them who 1235 00:48:04,490 --> 00:48:02,339 will actually engage in this kind of 1236 00:48:05,210 --> 00:48:04,500 work and so we're quite optimistic about 1237 00:48:06,370 --> 00:48:05,220 that part 1238 00:48:08,390 --> 00:48:06,380 [Music] 1239 00:48:10,790 --> 00:48:08,400 one of the 1240 00:48:13,490 --> 00:48:10,800 uh 1241 00:48:15,470 --> 00:48:13,500 aspects of the conference which I 1242 00:48:17,329 --> 00:48:15,480 suggested 1243 00:48:22,309 --> 00:48:17,339 a bit of a problem 1244 00:48:27,050 --> 00:48:24,230 a tendency from time to time to slip 1245 00:48:29,390 --> 00:48:27,060 into discussions of the nature of the 1246 00:48:32,450 --> 00:48:29,400 aliens quote unquote whatever they may 1247 00:48:34,790 --> 00:48:32,460 be as to whether they're helping us or 1248 00:48:38,270 --> 00:48:34,800 hurting us the good guys versus bad guys 1249 00:48:40,010 --> 00:48:38,280 versus the bad guys and of course 1250 00:48:41,990 --> 00:48:40,020 I think essentially that gets into 1251 00:48:44,930 --> 00:48:42,000 almost a kind of theological argument 1252 00:48:47,089 --> 00:48:44,940 and I think we must concentrate our 1253 00:48:49,670 --> 00:48:47,099 attention on what is happening to human 1254 00:48:51,050 --> 00:48:49,680 beings and help them explore their own 1255 00:48:52,730 --> 00:48:51,060 personal experiences 1256 00:48:55,370 --> 00:48:52,740 because I think 1257 00:48:58,430 --> 00:48:55,380 if you if you start dealing with whether 1258 00:49:01,190 --> 00:48:58,440 or not you have been these are enemies 1259 00:49:03,349 --> 00:49:01,200 these are friends or whatever uh you're 1260 00:49:04,309 --> 00:49:03,359 providing yourself with either food for 1261 00:49:07,010 --> 00:49:04,319 paranoia or some kind of 1262 00:49:09,170 --> 00:49:07,020 rationalizations uh 1263 00:49:10,730 --> 00:49:09,180 that can feed a certain kind of denial 1264 00:49:13,970 --> 00:49:10,740 we've got to get people I think away 1265 00:49:15,530 --> 00:49:13,980 from those judgments what happens when 1266 00:49:17,450 --> 00:49:15,540 it's the experiencers who make that 1267 00:49:19,069 --> 00:49:17,460 judgment though we see that happening I 1268 00:49:22,550 --> 00:49:19,079 I think that I think that one of the 1269 00:49:23,930 --> 00:49:22,560 problems is that uh 1270 00:49:31,790 --> 00:49:23,940 the 1271 00:49:33,829 --> 00:49:31,800 involved can have an undue influence in 1272 00:49:37,730 --> 00:49:33,839 that area and I've I think we've seen 1273 00:49:40,910 --> 00:49:37,740 examples to conference I have of feeding 1274 00:49:42,349 --> 00:49:40,920 a certain sort of theological line uh 1275 00:49:45,710 --> 00:49:42,359 being uh 1276 00:49:48,650 --> 00:49:45,720 paid out by a therapist investigator or 1277 00:49:50,270 --> 00:49:48,660 whatnot which I think 1278 00:49:52,550 --> 00:49:50,280 is not 1279 00:49:56,569 --> 00:49:52,560 in other words it's almost as if they're 1280 00:49:59,030 --> 00:49:56,579 trying to decide the nature and moral uh 1281 00:50:01,190 --> 00:49:59,040 qualities of the germs without trying to 1282 00:50:03,890 --> 00:50:01,200 figure out what the disease is 1283 00:50:05,630 --> 00:50:03,900 this is this is a very complex question 1284 00:50:08,270 --> 00:50:05,640 because it 1285 00:50:10,250 --> 00:50:08,280 we it turns back to the question of 1286 00:50:11,690 --> 00:50:10,260 investigator versus therapist depending 1287 00:50:14,450 --> 00:50:11,700 on how you want to define those terms 1288 00:50:17,450 --> 00:50:14,460 and the balance between when do you have 1289 00:50:18,710 --> 00:50:17,460 enough information versus which is what 1290 00:50:20,030 --> 00:50:18,720 the investigator was the investigator 1291 00:50:22,609 --> 00:50:20,040 wants complete information and the 1292 00:50:24,470 --> 00:50:22,619 therapist primary goal is to return the 1293 00:50:26,990 --> 00:50:24,480 patient to a state of emotional 1294 00:50:28,750 --> 00:50:27,000 stability and if one is working a case 1295 00:50:30,829 --> 00:50:28,760 through to a certain point and 1296 00:50:32,809 --> 00:50:30,839 psychologically there appears to be a 1297 00:50:35,930 --> 00:50:32,819 calm and a resolution 1298 00:50:38,329 --> 00:50:35,940 but one may not have a full Corpus of 1299 00:50:41,990 --> 00:50:38,339 data then what do you do now as a 1300 00:50:44,270 --> 00:50:42,000 therapist my primary obligation is to 1301 00:50:46,190 --> 00:50:44,280 maintain their health it may be it is 1302 00:50:47,510 --> 00:50:46,200 conceivable that we have not worked 1303 00:50:49,490 --> 00:50:47,520 through the full body material but 1304 00:50:51,430 --> 00:50:49,500 perhaps we have reached a plateau for 1305 00:50:54,349 --> 00:50:51,440 that person at that time 1306 00:50:56,089 --> 00:50:54,359 to force it through that's a that's 1307 00:50:57,950 --> 00:50:56,099 that's a difficult decision and most of 1308 00:51:00,230 --> 00:50:57,960 the time actually I don't do it because 1309 00:51:02,270 --> 00:51:00,240 I still know with with certainty so 1310 00:51:04,010 --> 00:51:02,280 little about it but they know that I'm 1311 00:51:05,690 --> 00:51:04,020 available for them whether it's in a 1312 00:51:07,370 --> 00:51:05,700 month or six months of a year I'm still 1313 00:51:09,230 --> 00:51:07,380 there right so I don't really care how 1314 00:51:11,569 --> 00:51:09,240 long the investigation takes I agree 1315 00:51:13,430 --> 00:51:11,579 David I don't think anybody wants to 1316 00:51:15,890 --> 00:51:13,440 force somebody to Sure through to 1317 00:51:18,109 --> 00:51:15,900 anything I mean time to think about that 1318 00:51:20,630 --> 00:51:18,119 I know uh we don't have the time for 1319 00:51:24,410 --> 00:51:20,640 that but I think that uh 1320 00:51:27,170 --> 00:51:24,420 the the the biggest cloud on the horizon 1321 00:51:29,569 --> 00:51:27,180 actually as I see it uh is a kind of 1322 00:51:31,490 --> 00:51:29,579 theological argument which is that I 1323 00:51:34,370 --> 00:51:31,500 think essentially a waste of time yeah 1324 00:51:37,130 --> 00:51:34,380 it misses yeah Point all the way around 1325 00:51:38,569 --> 00:51:37,140 that's the way the experiences uh and or 1326 00:51:40,730 --> 00:51:38,579 certain ones of them seem to be taking 1327 00:51:43,190 --> 00:51:40,740 it to them it's beginning to be a 1328 00:51:45,049 --> 00:51:43,200 profound philosophical or religious 1329 00:51:46,730 --> 00:51:45,059 issue so they are they're introducing 1330 00:51:49,609 --> 00:51:46,740 her perhaps that's a method of their 1331 00:51:51,470 --> 00:51:49,619 coping now they choose that and it works 1332 00:51:53,450 --> 00:51:51,480 for them and it doesn't hurt them or 1333 00:51:56,450 --> 00:51:53,460 anybody else it's okay no I agree with 1334 00:51:59,210 --> 00:51:56,460 them you know I one of the 1335 00:52:01,069 --> 00:51:59,220 I want to ask a question here not Dave 1336 00:52:03,250 --> 00:52:01,079 really one of the things that I've 1337 00:52:05,870 --> 00:52:03,260 observed in the difference between 1338 00:52:07,490 --> 00:52:05,880 investigators and therapists or I don't 1339 00:52:10,430 --> 00:52:07,500 want to paint it that black between 1340 00:52:13,910 --> 00:52:10,440 those two different uh logical systems 1341 00:52:17,690 --> 00:52:13,920 is the difference in in what is 1342 00:52:19,809 --> 00:52:17,700 perceived as progress or Truth uh to the 1343 00:52:23,210 --> 00:52:19,819 investigator it's it's case-to-case 1344 00:52:27,530 --> 00:52:23,220 reproducibility and to the therapist 1345 00:52:29,450 --> 00:52:27,540 many times it seems to be a a big change 1346 00:52:32,210 --> 00:52:29,460 in how the person relates to the 1347 00:52:35,329 --> 00:52:32,220 phenomena now in your work do you feel 1348 00:52:39,109 --> 00:52:35,339 that lines of Investigation or approach 1349 00:52:41,510 --> 00:52:39,119 to more neutral work that result in a 1350 00:52:42,950 --> 00:52:41,520 change significant change in how the 1351 00:52:44,750 --> 00:52:42,960 person views the experience when you 1352 00:52:46,609 --> 00:52:44,760 regard that as something to be 1353 00:52:47,930 --> 00:52:46,619 encouraged or stay away from or a 1354 00:52:48,829 --> 00:52:47,940 positive indicator that you're in the 1355 00:52:50,809 --> 00:52:48,839 right track or do you think is 1356 00:52:53,150 --> 00:52:50,819 indication you're beginning to relieve 1357 00:52:56,210 --> 00:52:53,160 these mislead these people in religious 1358 00:52:58,549 --> 00:52:56,220 ways uh well I I don't uh try to lead 1359 00:53:00,530 --> 00:52:58,559 them into any view of their of of the 1360 00:53:02,390 --> 00:53:00,540 nature experience we just try to uncover 1361 00:53:04,910 --> 00:53:02,400 what actually happened right I don't 1362 00:53:06,230 --> 00:53:04,920 care what do and when I have a support 1363 00:53:08,089 --> 00:53:06,240 group meeting one of the things I have 1364 00:53:10,010 --> 00:53:08,099 to do is to some extent a referee 1365 00:53:11,510 --> 00:53:10,020 between people who want to break the 1366 00:53:12,770 --> 00:53:11,520 next of the aliens and other people who 1367 00:53:15,049 --> 00:53:12,780 feel they've had some kind of spiritual 1368 00:53:18,190 --> 00:53:15,059 growth as a result and it's fine by me I 1369 00:53:21,589 --> 00:53:18,200 don't care which ones but the point is 1370 00:53:23,809 --> 00:53:21,599 the it's an argument that that leads 1371 00:53:26,690 --> 00:53:23,819 nowhere and we want resolution but of 1372 00:53:29,630 --> 00:53:26,700 course I've I'm feeling very often that 1373 00:53:32,450 --> 00:53:29,640 people who have come to a very very 1374 00:53:35,089 --> 00:53:32,460 positive view of the experience uh have 1375 00:53:37,250 --> 00:53:35,099 just uh in a certain sense constructed a 1376 00:53:39,109 --> 00:53:37,260 silver lining which is perhaps 1377 00:53:41,089 --> 00:53:39,119 postponing the true effect of the 1378 00:53:43,309 --> 00:53:41,099 disillusionment that's bound to come and 1379 00:53:45,109 --> 00:53:43,319 the problems and so on so I see it as in 1380 00:53:46,490 --> 00:53:45,119 a certain sense a problem of therapy 1381 00:53:49,190 --> 00:53:46,500 that's right I think I think what you're 1382 00:53:53,210 --> 00:53:49,200 saying and what I find also is that uh 1383 00:53:55,309 --> 00:53:53,220 to me uh it however the the abductee 1384 00:53:56,930 --> 00:53:55,319 handles it is up to the to the 1385 00:53:58,250 --> 00:53:56,940 circumstances and the background and the 1386 00:54:00,470 --> 00:53:58,260 upbringing of the abductee and whatever 1387 00:54:02,930 --> 00:54:00,480 works for them is the best way and we'll 1388 00:54:05,510 --> 00:54:02,940 work with that as long as it brings a 1389 00:54:08,390 --> 00:54:05,520 relief and and some sort of therapeutic 1390 00:54:11,329 --> 00:54:08,400 value the danger is having the therapist 1391 00:54:13,910 --> 00:54:11,339 or the investigator uh have a structure 1392 00:54:17,150 --> 00:54:13,920 of his or her own that they overlay on 1393 00:54:20,630 --> 00:54:17,160 the experience and sort of steer the 1394 00:54:23,030 --> 00:54:20,640 abductee into that that structure and 1395 00:54:24,829 --> 00:54:23,040 that has a totally different agenda and 1396 00:54:26,950 --> 00:54:24,839 that can be quite quite dangerous I 1397 00:54:29,569 --> 00:54:26,960 think 1398 00:54:32,750 --> 00:54:29,579 right it's a very a very quick example 1399 00:54:36,410 --> 00:54:32,760 of something I was horrified was one man 1400 00:54:39,290 --> 00:54:36,420 who uh was a therapist who insisted that 1401 00:54:40,970 --> 00:54:39,300 uh uh aliens were much more trustworthy 1402 00:54:44,270 --> 00:54:40,980 than human beings and that one of his 1403 00:54:46,130 --> 00:54:44,280 ritual things he tells a new uh object 1404 00:54:49,190 --> 00:54:46,140 he was working with or experience or 1405 00:54:50,450 --> 00:54:49,200 whatever is that he has to fill them in 1406 00:54:51,470 --> 00:54:50,460 on the government cover-up and the 1407 00:54:52,970 --> 00:54:51,480 extent that which the government is 1408 00:54:56,750 --> 00:54:52,980 lying I thought how in the world would 1409 00:54:58,190 --> 00:54:56,760 any therapist feel I have the nerve to 1410 00:55:01,390 --> 00:54:58,200 say that something he has to present to 1411 00:55:04,549 --> 00:55:01,400 us to his patient or his client I mean 1412 00:55:08,030 --> 00:55:04,559 that's again almost theology that that 1413 00:55:10,490 --> 00:55:08,040 kind of a problem uh is offensive but it 1414 00:55:13,069 --> 00:55:10,500 it's not unique to this phenomenon it's 1415 00:55:16,130 --> 00:55:13,079 it comes up in all kinds of therapeutic 1416 00:55:18,049 --> 00:55:16,140 cases and it's just it's bad work and 1417 00:55:19,790 --> 00:55:18,059 the problem is that it's it's hard to 1418 00:55:22,730 --> 00:55:19,800 find good people like it's hard to find 1419 00:55:27,170 --> 00:55:22,740 a good pizza in town but it's a problem 1420 00:55:33,470 --> 00:55:30,910 from the standpoint of a data shelter 1421 00:55:36,230 --> 00:55:33,480 the uh 1422 00:55:38,930 --> 00:55:36,240 completeness of any one given case is 1423 00:55:41,089 --> 00:55:38,940 not all that significant if you have 1424 00:55:43,609 --> 00:55:41,099 enough cases 1425 00:55:46,970 --> 00:55:43,619 the overall body of the thing you know 1426 00:55:49,370 --> 00:55:46,980 LOL equal out at the end if there is 1427 00:55:52,549 --> 00:55:49,380 genuinely some kind of equality in there 1428 00:55:55,010 --> 00:55:52,559 so you know by all means I would say 1429 00:55:58,370 --> 00:55:55,020 look out first and only for the the good 1430 00:56:00,470 --> 00:55:58,380 of failure absolutely right yes and and 1431 00:56:03,349 --> 00:56:00,480 God will take care of itself as long as 1432 00:56:05,390 --> 00:56:03,359 everybody communicates that economically 1433 00:56:07,730 --> 00:56:05,400 that's that's an excellent point for the 1434 00:56:08,750 --> 00:56:07,740 duty I think to who whoever is doing the 1435 00:56:11,569 --> 00:56:08,760 research whether it's research 1436 00:56:13,190 --> 00:56:11,579 investigation therapy is for the clients 1437 00:56:17,150 --> 00:56:13,200 or the patient in front of them and 1438 00:56:19,549 --> 00:56:17,160 their their well-being is number one on 1439 00:56:21,650 --> 00:56:19,559 the um the priority list and collection 1440 00:56:24,950 --> 00:56:21,660 of data is number two and number two is 1441 00:56:28,130 --> 00:56:24,960 in a much lower level I had an example 1442 00:56:31,370 --> 00:56:28,140 of working with a uh a 13 or 14 year old 1443 00:56:34,309 --> 00:56:31,380 girl who was a born-again Christian who 1444 00:56:35,329 --> 00:56:34,319 uh was in tears and shock after an 1445 00:56:37,790 --> 00:56:35,339 abduction which you remembered 1446 00:56:39,650 --> 00:56:37,800 consciously because when she was on the 1447 00:56:40,609 --> 00:56:39,660 table and things were being done to her 1448 00:56:42,829 --> 00:56:40,619 body 1449 00:56:44,809 --> 00:56:42,839 she was praying to God to save her and 1450 00:56:46,910 --> 00:56:44,819 take her out of there and God didn't 1451 00:56:49,549 --> 00:56:46,920 save her and take her out and I found 1452 00:56:52,490 --> 00:56:49,559 myself having a long long discussion 1453 00:56:54,650 --> 00:56:52,500 about why that should not be damaging to 1454 00:56:55,970 --> 00:56:54,660 her faith because I was certain that 1455 00:56:58,970 --> 00:56:55,980 there were other times she prayed for 1456 00:57:00,410 --> 00:56:58,980 some sort of Deliverance that prayers 1457 00:57:02,630 --> 00:57:00,420 one reason or another had not answered 1458 00:57:06,549 --> 00:57:02,640 and here I was from the point of view of 1459 00:57:12,530 --> 00:57:10,370 young women get back the support that 1460 00:57:14,390 --> 00:57:12,540 seemed to be very crucial to her life 1461 00:57:16,390 --> 00:57:14,400 and what she needed at that point so I 1462 00:57:19,069 --> 00:57:16,400 think we do have to uh 1463 00:57:21,349 --> 00:57:19,079 we have to use every possible tool 1464 00:57:26,270 --> 00:57:21,359 that's available to help that person 1465 00:57:28,609 --> 00:57:26,280 regardless of of data or okay good 1466 00:57:29,990 --> 00:57:28,619 that's a that's a very good note to 1467 00:57:32,270 --> 00:57:30,000 close on and I want to thank you all 1468 00:57:35,990 --> 00:57:32,280 very much for your cooperation thank you 1469 00:57:40,010 --> 00:57:36,000 just add one thing uh and that is that 1470 00:57:43,790 --> 00:57:40,020 one of the big problems in this field is 1471 00:57:46,910 --> 00:57:43,800 is resources you know we we're beginning 1472 00:57:50,329 --> 00:57:46,920 to get people who volunteered to collect 1473 00:57:53,690 --> 00:57:50,339 up a number of MRI or CAT scans uh who 1474 00:57:54,650 --> 00:57:53,700 are going to deal with alien writing or 1475 00:57:57,349 --> 00:57:54,660 something like this and we're beginning 1476 00:57:58,790 --> 00:57:57,359 to get into the specialist regime but 1477 00:58:01,010 --> 00:57:58,800 all of this kind of thing and 1478 00:58:03,470 --> 00:58:01,020 investigation physical evidence in 1479 00:58:06,170 --> 00:58:03,480 particular but data banks and 1480 00:58:09,349 --> 00:58:06,180 standardized psychological testing forms 1481 00:58:12,290 --> 00:58:09,359 requires money and I really think that 1482 00:58:14,990 --> 00:58:12,300 the people out there have got to start 1483 00:58:17,450 --> 00:58:15,000 supporting researched a little bit more 1484 00:58:19,549 --> 00:58:17,460 than 25 or 50 dollars I mean some 1485 00:58:21,950 --> 00:58:19,559 serious resources are needed in this 1486 00:58:23,390 --> 00:58:21,960 field and our progress is clearly being 1487 00:58:27,570 --> 00:58:23,400 held back because they aren't there 1488 00:58:27,580 --> 00:58:51,470 [Music] 1489 00:58:51,480 --> 00:59:04,730 oh